Im 30 years old and been married for only 3 years. I just found out that I am bisexual and my husband knows about it..... but for some reason i feel guilty for not being 100% into him. He tells me thats every mans dream to have a wife thats like that but im from the old fashion ways. So is it normal to carry on this way or do i have to let my lover goo?
2006-06-29 15:34:07 · 14 answers · asked by Miranda F 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
As long as your husband is ok with it, it should be fine. Just don't pick your lover over you husband ever.
2006-06-29 15:39:12 · answer #1 · answered by dkhae1 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Sexuality isn't significant yet what's significant is being dedicated to the man you settle on to have a courting with,sex is amazingly a lot dishonest with or with out emotion in contact and in case you instructed your spouse i doubt that she would experience good about it purely because there have been no thoughts there. In that recognize you've replied your own question,in the experience that your spouse will be damage and indignant you comprehend you've cheated on her. As for the porn no i see no problem with that,that is not any contact seen stimulation,this is in no way dishonest and is a fashion to have some sort of launch with out dishonest notwithstanding the problem is that it would not end you going to men does it? i imagine you want to ask your self no matter if you're extremely able to being trustworthy on your spouse and if no longer you comprehend she advantages extra efficient than this until eventually she is chuffed to be in an open marriage and not in any respect many women will be.
2016-11-30 00:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by kennan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Carry on that way as long as you want if he's fine with it. I wouldn't say it's normal, but who cares? The only problem you'll run into is if a triangle is created, because it would essentially be the same as if you found another guy and had an affair with him. A triangle can create trouble no matter what the sexual preferences of the people involved are.
2006-06-29 16:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by freespiritpassingthrough 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you be old fashion, when you are into women?
Look, if your husband is okay with the bisexual thing, let it be and have fun. I mean you are able to have the best of both worlds now. Live it up.
2006-06-29 15:44:23 · answer #4 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, let your lover goo. Your husband will love it.. Just dont do it with other men.. Thats bad, very bad.
2006-06-29 17:52:32 · answer #5 · answered by manonfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your marriage is your marriage. You and your husband have to figure out what works for your marriage. Not anyone or anything else. SO with that said, if he's ok with you being bi, then you are ok. The biggest thing is that you are allowed to be YOURSELF...if you cant do that, then the marriage wont work anyways.
2006-06-29 16:42:55 · answer #6 · answered by boomerang3que 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well ..choose one. Don't fool yourself. Sex is not everything in life. See what you want to do ..and who (husband and lover) will be best suited. If your husband also becomes bi ...will you be ready to accept it?? If yes..I would say you both together is a bizaree couple.
2006-06-29 15:44:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like a lot of fun now
if you plan to be around 10 years now, how you think you feel about it? and your husband?
You will out grow this
We all do
2006-06-29 15:54:00 · answer #8 · answered by mike c 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to to do some soulsearching and find what you really want. I dont think that this situation will work out in the longrun,
2006-06-29 15:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by lousylaus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would u feel if your husband was gay, and spending time with another man. What would your friends think, family think.......I'm pretty sure he's told someone, you would just for moral support
2006-06-29 15:43:54 · answer #10 · answered by rlc120168 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you encounter the Lover of our hearts and souls , sex and other relationships become secondary
2006-06-29 15:40:08 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋