Ive been seeing a guy for 4wks , we finally had sex and it was only like 6 min. do I tell him it was bad or keep my mouth shut, I relly like him so far.
2006-06-29 15:27:03 · 5 answers · asked by jennwst 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
if you ar both inexperianced, it less likley to be good. also the first time wont be as good. it takes awhile for both of you get the th idea of the mechanics of it. the more you do it, the more you learn, what pleases you partner and what pleases you.
2006-06-30 04:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by Belial 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first time with my husband wasn't stellar, either. First times in relationships are not always the best because you don't yet know your partner. Do NOT tell him, "Hey, you're lousy" if you care about the guy. Let some more time go by before you have sex again, see what you can do to take the initiative, and take a more active role to assure that you'll get more out of the experience.
Give him and your sex life a chance; often it's up to the woman to ensure that she enjoys the experience.
2006-06-29 15:35:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do Not tell him it was horrible! The next time you're together, slow him down. Ask him to go down on you or give him a sensual massage. Maybe he needs someone to teach him a few things. Showing a man how to please a woman can be very exciting. If you care for him give another chance. hopefully he'll be a good student.
2006-06-29 15:36:10 · answer #3 · answered by biblegirl73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You had sex in 4 weeks! Ok, and it lasted 6 minutes. He sounds inexperienced and so do you.
2006-06-29 15:32:27 · answer #4 · answered by happydawg 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he's inexperienced
2006-06-29 15:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by nononsense 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋