the last day of my peroid was may28 i didnt get a peroid this month i took a preganat test it says positive im 23 years old i have a 4 year old daughter she makes 5 in november so i did pretty good not getting preganant but im not preganant for my daughters father weve been off and on for about 2 years but i still love him but the guy im preganant for weve been 2 gether for 2 years hes very mean and controlling and jealous i was thinking about abortion should i consider doing it just this one time i know its wrong but this guy is not someone to have a kid with.
2006-06-29 15:11:02 · 18 answers · asked by new orleans cutie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
yea i know abortion its wrong but,its better then keep the baby cuz you not even about 8 weeks yet so do it and go back to you baby daddy that better!!i hate when women have kids from different dad that just crazii...!!and its ur choose!
2006-06-29 15:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by ❀Mother Of 2❀ 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Yea, you are most likely pregnant. I'm a Mom. Never had a wrong positive preg. test. I think you first need to sit down and think through this. Come to grips with reality. Weigh the pros and Cons. And know that in about two weeks, that baby's heart will start beating. Search your soul, or within yourself if you aren't religious. Will you be able to live with yourself if you go through with an abortion? This is a topic that pulls people's heartstrings and you will probably get a lot of people on here telling you that abortion is against God or a sin or whatever else to make you feel horrible for even thinking the word. When it comes down to it, you are the one that has to live with yourself. I would also like to say here that it is not the only option. Adoption can be a wonderful thing. There are so many people out there that are unable to have their own baby and would love this child. I am just saying that you need to take time to explore all of the options.
2006-06-29 22:20:10 · answer #2 · answered by AmandaHugandKiss 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait a week then do a pregancy test. Prenatel care is really important. If you dont get in before a few months you may have a hard time getting one to take you. No honey, i dont think you should have an abortion. If you are not married I dont think that you should stay with him either, especially with a 4 year old. If you are married you should seek counseling. If money is the issue dont worry about it. You will always have what you need in America, maybe not what you want but what you need. The guy may not last forever but you will be without the baby forever. You may regret not having it someday especially if he proves to become more of a problem. Hope you have a wonderful life with your child or children.
2006-06-29 22:24:34 · answer #3 · answered by movedtoarkansas@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
New Orleans, ignore the butt hole who answered first. Believe me, no man is worth killing your baby for. I have been there, oooh believe me I have been there on BOTH sides of the argument. I was 17 and pregnant, my boyfriend, (now ex) was the same way. I aborted my baby and I still am not over it. That was 18 years ago and I STILL mourn him every day of my life. I lost 2 children after that and wouldn't have my beautiful daughter except by the grace of God. Please get rid of the boyfriend, you can handle this by yourself, and get in touch with a crisis pregnancy center in your area. I will be more than happy to talk to you at any time about this and help however I can. Email me at missjenni99@yahoo.com and I will give you my number to call. I will be praying for you and your babies.
2006-06-29 22:33:33 · answer #4 · answered by missjenni99 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if the guy that your with now is mean towards you then i would leave him (try) and get him for child support when the baby is born. If you tried to leave him maybe he will learn to treat you with a little bit more respect. Also maybe your Daughters Father and you could get back together like you say your on and off maybe you could stay on with him and maybe he will help you take care of this new baby?
I hope i helped you with your question... If i didnt i'm sorry but i tried..
2006-06-29 23:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by daddyslilgurl1961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL ACCIDENTS HAPPEN. I DONT SUGGEST YOU GETTING AN ABORTION BECAUSE SOMETHING COULD GO WRONG. IT IS ALSO AGAINST GOD.
I SEE YOU HAVE OTHER OPTIONS, YOU COULD HAVE THE BABY AND CARE FOR IT ON YOUR OWN,OR YOU COULD HAVE THE BABY AND ADOPT IT OUT. THERE ARE ALOT OF PEOPLE WHO WANT BABIES AND JUST CANT HAVE ANY. YOU WOULD BE A BLESSING TO THEM.
BUT I WILL TELL YOU THAT YOU DONT NEED THE FATHER OF THE BABY AROUND YOU IF HE IS THE WAY YOU SAY HE IS. YOU AND YOUR OTHER CHILDREN DONT NEED THAT KIND OF PERSON IN YOUR LIVES, THE CHILDREN WILL END UP COPYING HIM IF THEY SEE THE WAY HE TREATS YOU. THEY WILL THINK THAT IS THE WAY A WOMAN IS SUPPOSE TO BE TREATED, BUT YOU KNOW ITS NOT.HOPE YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE.
2006-06-29 22:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by G D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont get an about because of a guy. Get it cause your not ready for another kid.I was 18 when I had my kids. My twins father is not in there life and my kids are fine. My kids just turn 4 as well.I'm 22 now, I'm pregnant right now with a great guy and he is wonderful with my kids.You sound like you're dating my EX...LOL. Also you dont need to be with someone like that. Be stong for your daughter.
If you need any one to talk to email me.
2006-06-29 22:35:34 · answer #7 · answered by ~Tgae~ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are two issues here:
1. To continue pregnant
2. To leave your boyfriend
This two issue should be considered separately, yes i think you should leave your boy friend. But you can still have baby without your boy friend. Unless you know that you are not going to love your baby, because it has something to do with this boy friend.
Think carefully before you go for abortion (killing your baby).
2006-06-29 22:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by Igno 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yep your definately pregnant and dont abort the baby cause you dont love the daddy you never know how things might turn out till try it you after all thats what lifes all about, so have the baby leave the daddy there are better guys out there than that
2006-06-29 22:33:15 · answer #9 · answered by USMC LCpl Wife & Mommy 2 Be! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hon i think that you need to do what your heart tells you to do. if you think that he would be worse or would take it out on the baby then you need to do the right thing. i am against abortion but i myself was in your position. i had the baby and 9 months after i got rid of him for my son's sake. now i am married to a wonderful guy that treats him like his own. what ever you chose it will work out.
2006-06-29 22:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by Monica B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. The test said positive.
2006-06-29 22:18:07 · answer #11 · answered by carobygirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋