i am married with a baby and even my exgirlfriend is married with a baby. now after years we happened to spend some time together and again we are getting closer to each other. she is asking me that what if she falls in love with me again. i dont know maybe even i wanted to ask her the same thing but now i am confused what to reply to her and what should i myself do.
2006-06-29 14:58:33 · 11 answers · asked by ask_me1111 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Ditch the exgirlfriend. You have a commitment to your wife and child. Plus, try to remember why you broke up. If you got back together the same problems would most likely come back
2006-06-29 15:02:58 · answer #1 · answered by bmom 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should spend LESS time with your EXgirlfriend,if any at all.Chances are that there was a reason for your break up in the first place and who's to say that won't happen again.Also you are MARRIED!If you really love your wife PLEASE stay away from your ex and focus on your wife and baby.How would you feel if your wife was in that situation?I bet you would feel hurt.Please get yourself out of this mess right away.Your wife and baby need to come first.If you decide to move forward with your ex you risk losing so much.Think of the consequences before making a mistake please.Good luck.
2006-06-29 15:10:29 · answer #2 · answered by mommyof2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude: Check it out. Your most important relationship is with your wife. End of story. You shouldnt even have ever put yourself in a situation where you are alone with the opposite sex, especially an ex. That "happened to spend time together" wasnt an accident, you let it happen. That is a no no.
I dont care if your wife has gained weight, nags, or the spark just isnt there anymore, or whatever reason you have for thinking of destroying her. It can be remedied. Relationships take lots of work. Lots of maintenance. So work at it! Show her you love her. If you feel like you dont love her anymore, fake it til you make it. You loved her once.Get that love back.
Tell your ex that you have a family, you already have a relationship you need to work on, and that you cant see her anymore unless it is in a double date setting where she is with her husband and you are with your wife.
As a rule, you should never be alone with someone of the opposite sex. It is asking for trouble that will only bring heartache.
Email me at crybnK@yahoo.com if you need to.
2006-06-29 15:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Barefoot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember the vows you took when you got married? You promised your wife that you would NOT DO THE VERY THING YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT NOW!! Remove yourself from the temptation and not only will you be happier, but you will not have ruined your wife's and baby's lives.
2006-06-29 15:09:08 · answer #4 · answered by kitten lover3 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should stick with your wife especially if you are happy with her.
Its Ok to be friends with the ex-girlfriend ..but know where to draw the line..
If the ex is really the "right" one for you you will know this..in the meantine ask her to please respect your wife and your present situation ...
Try and also spend more time with your wife and child in the meantime..
2006-06-29 15:30:19 · answer #5 · answered by jc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
spend more time with your wife and baby and less or better yet no time with this exgirlfriend. focus. you'll appreciate peace and happiness there after.
2006-06-29 15:05:58 · answer #6 · answered by landslide13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The ex. is the ex for a reason. you need to turn your attention to your family. woulda, coulda, shoulda, my ***. the past is the past you can't go back. it wont be the same and it wont be good.You need to man up and do right by the woman you vowed your life to and take care of the child you brought into this world. And hurry!!
2006-06-29 15:09:29 · answer #7 · answered by mark o 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop spending time with the ex-girlfriend, unless you WANT to rekindle old feelings.
You two broke up for a reason! Stay away.
2006-06-29 15:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by Eileen C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay away from the girlfriend. You promised yourself to your wife. You will mess up your life, your child's and your wife's. Why are you even considering it!!!!
2006-06-29 15:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by weswe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You made a promise to God to forsake all others. You must remember this promise and keep it. When this lady's thoughts stray, you must help her to remember and keep her own promise to God.
2006-06-29 15:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋