she just broke up with her bf and she thinks its her fault. she thinks she doesnt she deserves to live. she wont tell me what they broke up about.i cant convince her! what should i do? i never thounght she would cave in like this.
2006-06-29 14:36:06 · 7 answers · asked by Muse 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You are being a friend. Talk to their family and explain your concerns and hopefully they will be worried enough to seek help for your friend. You can also call the local mental health center to see what they can advise you or if there is a hotline to call. Your friend needs to know that there is more in this life than one relationship and how much they would hurt the ones that really love them and how it would destroy them if they hurt themself. Just because one relationship doesn't work shouldn't end the world. My prayers are with you.
2006-06-29 14:43:54 · answer #1 · answered by lucky_lady_blazing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
defintally get her help and dont brush it off talk to her or her parents and if she doesnt talk to them you tell her parents dont keep this issue quiet it is VERY serious..personal experience my best friend talked bout it all the time as if she was joking and in the end she wasnt she did kill her self and i regret not saying somthing to someone
2006-06-29 14:44:59 · answer #2 · answered by brown_eyed_cutie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
guys do strange things to females i tell ya.... 1st of all... tell her its not worth dying for. spend alot of time with her and do stuff to keep her mind off her ex... 90% of the people who threaten suicide-- wont go thru with it, they may pop pills but they'll call someone before its too late... and trust me--- tell her if she pops pills and goes to the hospital--- shes NOT going to like drinking the charcoal they make you drink!!!!!
2006-06-29 14:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by heavensent41770 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her talking and pray for her. Tell her God has someone for her--her ex wasn't it. She can look forward to the one whom God will send, but He can't send that person if she is dead. Also, if she kills herself, she's committing murder.
2006-06-29 14:40:51 · answer #4 · answered by ld 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her parents right away. This is serious and should not be taken lightly.
2006-06-29 14:40:38 · answer #5 · answered by adh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her parents and a local church to get prayer, so she can overcome her situation.
2006-06-29 14:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by turone1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him or her to go and kill her self and then say... "you'll never see me again." lol.
2006-06-29 14:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋