some say they do then ignoe me and never want too hang out, and they always call for my roommates but never for me, Im nice and good looking im not evan neardy or anything whats wroung with me.
2006-06-29 14:24:01 · 14 answers · asked by heromedel 3 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I like helping people but its hard too help people when im all alone so much.
2006-06-29 14:26:33 · update #1
Perhaps you appear too needy when you are around others. When you desperately want someone to like you, you tend to cling too much to those that initially express friendship. Then, after being around that for a bit, they decide they can't handle it and stop calling you. Don't seem so desperate for attention, and people will include you.
2006-06-29 14:28:13 · answer #1 · answered by Georgia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act too eager for friends -- always act nice, but you need to be in the frame-of-mind that you're doing people a favor by making yourself available as a friend...that takes a lot of self-confidence, but people are naturally attracted to that sort of thing. I'm not saying to act like a snob, just self-assured. Other than that, just be yourself. And if being yourself means exuding low self-esteem, you really need to work on that. Good luck!
2006-06-29 21:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by partlycloudy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I sort of understand what you're going through and may be able to explain. The sort of people you're dealing with don't truly know you, therefore, only say that they like you. I suggest confronting them and if they can not supply an answer, search for friends else where. Start getting involved in group activities. That usually helps thing a lot. It's really nothing to do with you, it's more to do with them.
Hope that helps!
2006-07-06 12:08:28 · answer #3 · answered by Sereana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for other people who like helping others. Stop trying to be friends with your roomies friends. Perhaps, they really aren't in your league and they know it. Be yourself and be honest. People who are worthy of your friendship are going to be there for you. As far as being lonely, I don't think there is a human alive or dead who experienced the loneliness Jesus did when he was crucified. If your lonely get out and meet people. Don't wait for your roomie's friends to pop in and ignore you.
Aside to Cairistiona: My grandmother always told me that, "Pretty is as Pretty Does." Your answer make me wonder just how pretty your heart is.
2006-06-29 21:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by clynneguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you maybe hanging out with the wrong crowd. you maybe nice to people, but some people prefer friends who are similar to them... birds of the same feather flock together... find people who have the same interests as you do and you'd have more things to talk about and enjoy together.
2006-06-29 21:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jivan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just by asking that question you lower your self-esteem. You have to love yourself first and everyone else will love you becasue you are confident of who you are.
2006-06-29 21:32:20 · answer #6 · answered by nymphette13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe youre being too nice and sometimes people mistake that as being fake or boring. Just be you, trust me, people will like you..
2006-06-29 21:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by Cheeseburger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because people are awful and self absorbed
2006-06-29 21:29:51 · answer #8 · answered by mandydawn1128 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bcause u are a downer - Smile Laugh and Like people- they will like u back
2006-06-29 21:34:38 · answer #9 · answered by julie t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you could try getting into some activity that people enjoy doing.... pool, swimming, fishing, the beach.... and don't be standoffish... but try to just be yourself
2006-06-29 21:28:32 · answer #10 · answered by tcatmech2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋