I dont know if i should call my ex i haven't talk to him in 1 year and 3 months, and i want to see how he's doing and if he's still with his girlfriend and what's going on with him????? I want to be friends!! Should I call him?? What would he think??How would he react?
I was only with him for a couple of months by the way.. What should I say if I call him??
Oh and it was a mutual break-up.He wanted to be friends then I didn't...He still stares at me whenever he sees me and one time I bumped into him and he asked how I was doing and I said hi but that was all that was said, he was coming out and I was going in (to the Restaurant).
2006-06-29 14:23:59 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Call, definitely call.
There is little regret to come if your were to dial those digits, but if you don't do it, there will always be a "what if" for you to wonder about.
If you don't know what to say, just act like it hasn't been a while since you last spoke. Just sort of pick up where you last left things on a positive note.
Life is too short to play games. If you want to talk to someone, the normal thing to do is to make the call - not sit around waiting for them for fear of looking desperate. He could be sitting on the other side of the phone waiting for you to call, because he doesn't want to look desperate if he were to pick up the phone. Just end the games and make the call. Hopefully it will be well received, if not, it wasn't meant to be. At least you will know.
2006-06-29 14:29:54 · answer #1 · answered by qopqo7 2 · 2⤊ 3⤋
# 1 rule for woman--- do not call him. If he still loves you or likes you he will call YOU. If you call him, he is going to think that you are chasing him and you don't want the title of a man chaser. If you see him again just have ligth convo and ask him how he is doing. BUT act like you are loving your life and are doing just fine. Good luck and remember---- he is your EX for a reason or reasons.
2006-06-29 21:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by lifeislove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, DON"T CALL!! He is an ex for a reason. You need to findsomeone else and move on. Some famous person said you should never go back to the past. There is a reason for that.
2006-06-29 21:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call.
My bet is if you search your feelings you know you shouldn't.
You're just remembering all the good times, and not the bad. It's been a long time, but if it didn't work then it won't work now.
Focus on meeting new people. Check out the new show on abc, "How to get the guy."
2006-06-29 21:30:34 · answer #4 · answered by theFo0t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that u should call him. Maybe say" Hey I was just calling to see how u was doing and to make sure u was still breathing".Then maybe a convo will start up. I said that u should call him bc maybe it was ment to be.You will never know until u try! Goodluck
2006-06-29 21:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by hot_like_coffee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have the desire to call him, then do it. If he doesn't seem to respond the way you want him to then just forget about him. He is an ex for a reason so just keep that in mind also.
2006-06-29 21:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should call him see how he's doing make sure he didn't get hurt badly or something> u should call him 1 time a week or more to check in on him.ok.
2006-06-29 21:28:28 · answer #7 · answered by kiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, that's up to you.. as a guy though, I'd say that the "let's just be friends" won't really work, because men aren't looking for another girl-buddy, we're usually looking for partners (or sex in most cases). being just friends, and knowing it won't grow into something else, I'd say forget it...
2006-06-29 21:28:53 · answer #8 · answered by cybahdawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man who truly wants to be with you will make the effort.
2006-06-29 21:26:42 · answer #9 · answered by JEFFAVEGRL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not call
2006-06-29 21:55:15 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋