2006-06-29 14:07:53 · 8 answers · asked by hikgirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
About 2 in a half years into my marriage, I thought it was over! My husband had no respect for me, was constantly jealous and controlling. I became mean, and stopped caring about us. We both started saying hateful harsh words, and almost gave up. We split up for a short time, and realized what a mistake it was. I truly think, sometimes is takes something big to wake a marriage up! It didn't take long for the both of us to realize what we were doing. Learn to respect each other, listen to each other, and fight fair. If you need to make the first move on talking about saving the marriage, please do it. It's not worth it to be stubborn, and hold grudges. Life is too short. If you feel that knot in your stomach, and deep pain in your heart when things aren't right between you and your spouse, then it's true love. It's probably your soul mate. Love is worth fighting for, it gets better as time goes on. Sometimes you have to go through some rough times to get there. Good luck hun....:)
2006-06-29 15:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I fell out of love. I married a man who I had known for three months when we were both twenty years old. As I got to know him better over the years, I realized that he really wasn't a person that I respected, admired, or loved. I thought he was a fun, easygoing guy at first, but it turned out that he needed constant care and attention from me, so I buried my needs under a rock. He became my whole life; I had no friends, no career, and no hobbies. Of course, it is partly my fault because I didn't stand up to him, but it killed our love. Our divorce was final after seven years, but the love had been dead for a few years by then.
2006-06-29 21:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep - But the way I see it, I wasn't "in love" to begin with. I loved him, yes.. but wasn't in love (usually takes a while to realize there IS a difference) We dated 4 mths before getting married at the age of 18.. two children , unfaithfulness, and a pathalogical liar and 5 years later i realized we didnt really know each other before we married, and i didnt like who he truly was. SO yes we divorced.
2006-06-30 02:23:27 · answer #3 · answered by Tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, I havent. I feel like if I were to get married and then fall out of love with my husband, a divorce would be the next step.
2006-06-29 21:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married now for 5 years. I know the feeling I had at the begining are gone. I just don't feel much for my husband as I use to. We are still together. He is still in love with me. I guess we are staying together for the kids. I try not to show my feeling around them.
2006-06-29 21:48:58 · answer #5 · answered by ladyjamie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...i was young and didn't realize people growup differently...we really became 2 people who didnt grow together and it was hard to take. i gave him 2 years to learn something and better himself, if not for me then for our child. he was content being a slug, not a provider. well, i took the kid and left. we divorced and now...after 13 years, we are friends...we just "fell out of love"!
2006-06-29 21:12:22 · answer #6 · answered by Carmella R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i fell out of love in about 2 yrs and i got divorced from her....she was a psychopath and had depression....chronic i think....tried to help her but she was a missed case
2006-06-29 21:10:28 · answer #7 · answered by reii 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah because its become dull and boring and no sex.
2006-06-29 21:09:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋