2006-06-29 13:52:19 · 15 answers · asked by theycallmesassypants 2 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I guess I should tell you why...
My ex was abusive, but we connected in bed, I was able to really be myself, and hold nothing back. But now, with my husband, it feels wrong, I am not sure why.
I love my husband, dearly, and except for this we have an awesome relationship.
Am I doomed because I cant let go of the ghosts from the past?
2006-07-05 15:28:09 · update #1
It's okay, don't feel bad. Just evaluate your relationship with him. How are things in your relationship? Are you upset or angry at him? Often if a woman doesn't connect emotionally with her spouse it is difficult to have sex.
Also, maybe it is something physical. Has your sex drive always been low? Or has this been happening recently?
You just have to find the root of the cause. I'm sure things will work out for you:>)
2006-06-29 14:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by kissn'tell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has your husband cheated on you? Have you had a complete or partial hysterectomy? Have you recently had a baby? Is your menstrual cycle normal? All of these things can contribute to your libido(or lack there of) If the answer to all of the above is no, then don't worry. Your sexual desire should return. If after a couple of months it hasn't, talk to your gyno. You may have a hormonal imbalance or be pre-menopausal.
2006-06-29 15:29:40 · answer #2 · answered by biblegirl73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a stage! Just do it when you have too and it will get better. You can't stop having sex unless he's cheated on you and you are worried about getting a STD!
Just go thur the stage it will pass. Imagine you are doing it with Brad Pitt or whatever hunk you like.
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I take that back I read your other question. Kick his *** out and tell him to leave you along!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Find you another man up at the church and have a good life. Sorry honey!
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2006-06-29 14:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty! You surely have a serious reason, question it and then you'll be able to start a deep thinking over it! Then, talk with him,it'll help you out .
2006-06-29 14:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by fabee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there some reason? If you don't feel like having sex, it is your perspective but realize this, if he cheats on you due to the neglect, who is to blame?
I hope you seek help and good luck!!!!
2006-06-29 14:54:40 · answer #5 · answered by slickkittykattwhopurs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you got to be honest with him. He can't force you to have sex with him! If he does, tell him that if he really love you, then he won't force you to do something like that. Sex is something really serious. Talk to him about it seriously!
2006-06-29 15:32:36 · answer #6 · answered by Corn head 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then why are you maried? Get a divorce and get on with your lives. Nobody should have to live without sex,
2006-06-29 14:08:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, don't have sex with him. It is your choice, Being married doesn't mean he can have sex with you when ever he wants.
If you want to have sex but don't have the urge, then tell him to extend the foreplay.
2006-06-29 13:58:39 · answer #8 · answered by LUIS 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y don't u want to have sex with ur husband.
2006-06-29 14:07:43 · answer #9 · answered by Lexi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww why not? i love having sex with my husband.
2006-06-29 14:00:02 · answer #10 · answered by Exotic Pink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋