2006-06-29 13:45:02 · 4 answers · asked by diabolic_fromabove@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You miss a guy who abuses you? How can you love someone who doesn't love you? Anyone who DID love you, wouldn't abuse you. Get some help sweetie...talk to someone about your self esteem and why you would allow yourself to "love" someone who's willing to harm you. Take care of you...nobody deserves to be abused...and nobody that cares about you is going to abuse you...
2006-06-29 13:49:04 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you are feeling like you are missing him, immediately think about all the times he hurt you. thats how i got over bad things in the past. if i thought about a nice happy time, i reminded myself of a really bad time in return. somehow after that, thinking about a nice birthday dinner in the past didnt seem as good when i remembered being pulled across the floor by my hair. try it, its like a mental list of pros and cons... if you were treated like that and abused, then he did not love you, and thats not your fault. he is not the right person for you!
2006-06-29 20:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by Kez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write in a journal all the bad things he has done to you and every-time you start to miss him read it and then you will realize he wasn't worth loving.
2006-06-29 20:52:49 · answer #3 · answered by cookiedjnpc11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he abuses you...believe me he does not love you back....
Love does not hit you or hurt you...
2006-06-29 20:49:25 · answer #4 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋