I'm expecting the atheists to have the best, logical answers. Just wait and see. I bet some Christians would give answers that are not even answers
2006-06-29 13:43:03 · 15 answers · asked by Black Atheist 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I am an Athiest...There is no real answer to this question but what I have learned of what love is to me is...
(L)isten: and Validate them by hearing and empathizing.
(O)verlook: their minor character flaws as they will overlook yours.
(V)alue: who they are and what they mean to you.
(E)xpress: how you love them not just with words but with actions.
2006-06-29 23:29:35 · answer #1 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I'm agnostic.
Here's a little thing I wrote about the subject:
Do you believe in love at first site? That one quick glance can let you know you've found your soulmate? Sounds pretty good, doesn't it? Maybe a little too good to be true. Sure, a passing glance is enough to create an attraction or a little intrigue, but then it's more like lust at first site.
Does love at first site exist?
Does LOVE even exist?
If so, what exactly is love?
Is there just one definite meaning, or is it purely personal opinion and connotation?
How many kinds of love are there?
Is it possible to love more than one person, and in what ways?
Is love really forever, or does it eventually fade away?
How much love is there? Is it limited?
Does each person only have a certain amount of love they can give?
Do different people have different amounts of love?
What would happen if one were to run out?
If someone loves you, does it allow you to give more back?
Are humans the only beings capable of feeling love?
Is it possible to comprehend?
Do you love anyone? Does anyone love you?
In what ways and how much do you love each other? Can they be compared?
Can love really conquer all? If not, what is greater than love?
Can anyone love anything?
Is there really such a thing as love? I guess we'll never know. To some, it's as real as the ground we're standing on right now, although a few existentialists might question even the most basic ideas that we consider reality.
Personally, I believe love exists in some way, shape, or form. What it really is still eludes me; however, I still believe that love, whatever that may be, is really true and truly real.
2006-06-29 20:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by nunovyorebiznis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i've always based love on three components: passion, intimacy, and commitment.
~ passion; when the flame is still there,
~ intimacy; there's a bond between the two and,
~ commitment; loyalty
if those are all checked, then that's true love to me.
i'm muslim.
p.s: what does this have to do with religion, may i ask? why would you expect that atheists will have the best, logical answer? is it because you think that love doesn't exist? "love" is a just a chemical reaction between two people? i've read a article based on a scientific study on "love". "love" the feeling is non-existent. however, it is really a chemical reaction. it can be a fast or slow reaction. hormones speed up when the reaction is good. so, the bond between the two becomes very lovey dovey. when hormones are slow, then the reaction is slow. so, there isn't a love interest between the two. that's how scientific i can get when explaining about "love". is this the type of answer you wanted?
2006-06-29 21:04:13 · answer #3 · answered by anak sendu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a cool question. Love is a feeling of total commitment, dedication and contentment. Also love is great!! Knowing that someone loves you is a wonderful feeling. It gives you a sense of meaning and a sense of belonging. However the best love is unconditional love. Unconditional love is free of limitations, free of regrets and has no ifs, ands or buts. Everyone experiences love at some point in their life, however, you can only truly hope to experience true unconditional love at some point in your life.
BTW I do not necessary have any religious label. I believe in God as a higher power and I believe that God can create good and opportunity in your life. However, I do not feel that I need to attend a church or read a Bible to fulfill my commitment, my "love" to God.
2006-06-29 20:57:15 · answer #4 · answered by Jaime 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was told by a very wise man that the definition of love is: seeking the best good for the object of concern in the spirit of self-sacrifice regardless of your own personal feelings. (I sincerely hope I got the verbage right - any Redeemed members out there?)
2006-06-29 20:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs Rogers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the Bible - 1 Corinthians 13. There you will find THE definition of love. And if it isn't obvious already, I am a Christian.
2006-06-29 20:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pepe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is compassion and the desire to see all sentient beings happy and cared for. If everyone had more compassion just imagine how the world would be. I am Buddhist.
2006-06-29 20:51:04 · answer #7 · answered by alessa_sunderland 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a deep feeling that can only be felt and lasts , if it is really love, if you love someone then you would do just anything for them because love is caring and unselfish.
2006-06-29 20:50:15 · answer #8 · answered by Jean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love to me is, well, LOVE. When you care about someone more then anything and willing and happy to go the distance for them, and give of yourself for their good, when you want everything for that person.
Atheist.
2006-06-29 21:00:22 · answer #9 · answered by Indigo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is careing for the person you love. love is the most beautiful feeling on the phase of the earth. Gnostic
2006-06-29 20:47:56 · answer #10 · answered by yoghurtlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is patient and kind,
love is not jealous or boastful, it is not arrogant or rude,
love does not insist on its own way
it is not irritable or resentful
it does not rejoice at wrong but rejoices in the light
2006-06-29 20:47:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋