this girl and i got into it last week and it wasn't anything serious, but she always does this and she will make up this lies of things people have said, it just becomes a total mess. today she has been making little threats at me like she always do because i was looking at her book i didn't know it was her's. so like always i thought she wasn't going to anything but she tried to throw a cup at me and missed. we are in summer school which cost a lot and i don't want to get kicked out for fighting so what to do?
2006-06-29 13:30:43 · 21 answers · asked by mc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Tell an administrator. And depending on the laws in your area, after that you have the right to file charges for threatening or harassing behavior. just have all your facts straight and documented
2006-06-29 13:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Ananke402 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off if yall are about 15 then ok then I can help but if this girl is younger then thats some middle school sh!t. But any ways be like damn ma why in the h3ll are you being so childish?? Look at her real dumb and have a smirk on your face. Make her feel real dumb and be like girl everyone here knows you dont like me and really all ur doing is makeing ur *** look stupid.
Just trust me let her know she is being like real dumb and make her look stupid she'll shut up or... if you see her ne where else BEAT HER @ss!!! that always works!!
But just know dont let her mess up ur future just b/c she wont have one!! If something does happen and u do decide to fight her then yeah you'll have got the glory for a while but in a few years you'll regret it!!
2006-06-29 20:36:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this girl is a school bully---
I would let the girl know that you are in summer school for a purpose and it is not to get into trouble with her!
I know your parents would be really upset if you did get put out of school--so I would speak with the teacher if speaking with the girl did not work!
Sometimes you have to just walk away from a bad situation! You have nothing to prove to the girl by fighting her!
Good luck!
2006-06-29 20:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by destine4_69 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignore her. She just wants attention. When she bugs you, just look at her and smile. Sounds to me like you've got your priorities in order, YOU are doing great!
When I was in school there was a big mean black girl that everyone was afraid of. One day she walked past me in the locker room and hit me so hard it knocked me off the bench. I yelled at her and said if she was having a bad life, it didn't give her the right to make mine bad too. She left me alone after that. Many years later I went back to that city to visit old friends. They told me that a couple years later she killed her father because he'd gotten her pregnant.
You never know what someone else is going through....
2006-06-29 20:37:00 · answer #4 · answered by Earthmom2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to stand up for yourself first of all i am not saying to get physical with her but what is her problem she sounds like a bully. I think you should approach her the next tme she starts something and ask her what she has against you the best way to approach a bully is unexpected and to know what their weaknesses are cause it goes beyond you she may end up being your best friend one day. i bet you there is something about you she likes but does not know how to ask you how she can be that way to. It Is called jealousy
2006-06-29 20:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by mdboomskwad.mc4u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your distance, physically and socially. stay away from wherever she is. just walk away if you see her anywhere near you. surround yourself with people you trust. that way, you have witnesses and back up, in case she tries something. i dont think you are being a coward or anything like that if you try to help yourself by backing off. its just easier for you not to get into trouble, thats all. words dont hurt if they are not true. just let it pass. but if it gets physical, you need to report it to the principal because you need to protect yourself from future incidents. this is to document the instances of aggravation and abuse. in all cases girl, you need to leave a paper trail that would connect to her directly. just try and keep the peace but watch your back too.
2006-06-29 20:41:46 · answer #6 · answered by sleepyhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the counselor or your teacher about the situation and tell your teacher in a note when something is up; so she can keep and eye on that chick. O also ask the teacher to move and if you have witnesses and a tape recorder to record her in secret. good luck!
2006-06-29 20:37:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell every teacher and person that is around that this person is harrassing you. You are right to think it could be you that ends up getting burned.
2006-06-29 20:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by KEOE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember, you are number one in your world. To heck with this stupid little girl. Narc on her, narc on her big time. Get her worthless backside out of Dodge.
2006-06-29 20:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Fun and Games 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her up AFTER school. Or just calmly talk to her about the problem. When you start talking and if she starts trippin, THEN you beat her up.
2006-06-29 20:34:37 · answer #10 · answered by Jammy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋