what should i do should i let my ex take my viginity or should i not but theres this other boy who i love to death and we have been off and on since middle school and i am a junior in high school and i love him who should i let take my virginity and is it possible to love to people
2006-06-29 13:17:36 · 15 answers · asked by mickeymousebaby09 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Definitely forget about sex with the ex-boyfriend. Having sex with someone should be a natural part of a continuing relationship with someone you love. He's off-and-on, hot and cold, so don't do it. The old boyfriend is out of line.
The other boy has potential, but still it's off-and-on. Work on developing a solid relationship. You'll have a better idea of when the time is right.
This website has some things to think about before having sex your first time:
http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/girls/virginity.html
2006-06-29 13:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Ginger/Virginia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you stupid? Do you not have any self worth? Why would you consider giving your EX the gift of your virginity? What has he done for you? Just admit it to yourself he's not that into you. Any body would do for him. You are not special to him but you will be some day to the man you marry. You will feel used like a piece of meat if you let anyone but your HUSBAND take your virginity. At least try to wait until you are more sure of yourself and how very special you are. Please read up on the subject of sex and how it is serious business. You can get pregnant the first time or you could contract some awful disease that you will have the rest of your life or that could kill you. someone who just wants to have sex with you won't care about your health or your emotions. I know you have brains girl. Use them!
2006-06-29 13:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for sounding my age, but no you should not give up your virginity to your ex, you should save that for someone that you really love. Now, and this is coming from a guy, if I guy is really into you he won't pressure you to have sex, and if he says that he will leave you if you don't give it up then he is not worth having as a boyfriend. Finally if and when you do have sex make sure you use protection, that means a condom, not just the pill. The condom will help protect you from sexually transmitted diseases (notice I did not say it will totally protect you from STD's). That also goes with oral sex, you can get STD's in the mouth! If you need more information oin STD's google the Natioinal Institute of Health, they have a lot of info on their site. Good luck and stay healthy!
2006-06-29 13:36:03 · answer #3 · answered by PW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've looked at the other questions you asked here as well. You're a high school junior, confused about your emotions, confused about your sexuality and totally unsure of yourself. You don't know much about the physical act of sex, much less its emotional impact.
You have no idea yet what it means to make love to someone. Reading between the lines, neither do these guys. For you, sex at this point would be a totally irrational act. Particularly with this guy. It's a mistake it will take you a decade to recover from.
2006-06-29 13:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,
First of all your too young to be thinking about sex but since you are i think you shouldn't let any of them take it b/c you seem so unsure about who you want. First pick one of them. The one you love the most & who you believe loves you the most. Second be absolutly sure you are ready for this. If you aren't don't do it. If the one you choose gets upset too bad. They are not worth your time. Your first time is very important. You can't get it back. Remember that.
As for loving two people. Yes, you can. You can love 2 ppl 4 different reasons. It'll be hard but you need to pick one. If not its unfair to them and you.
Think about it. HARD!
2006-06-29 13:49:41 · answer #5 · answered by I love lucy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should save your virginity for someone who is very special to you and who loves you a lot. I don't think your ex probably qualifies based on what you said. If he wants to be your "first", let him come back and be your steady boyfriend "first", lol.
2006-06-29 13:24:38 · answer #6 · answered by cooperslassie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugghh -
seriously do you really think that sleeping with him is a good thing?
he dumped you and now he wants your virginity-
All you will be to him is a notch, a number, a score! And you can look forward to heartbreak, possible pregnancy, possible disease.
Sounds like a fair trade doesn't it?
Dump him, concentrate on YOU, and keep your virginity.
2006-06-29 13:32:18 · answer #7 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
save ur viginity for someone else
2006-06-29 13:29:36 · answer #8 · answered by Shilpa D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your virginity for your husband.that's the honourable and godly thing to do.
2006-06-29 13:25:41 · answer #9 · answered by everprecious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMg does this mean ur cheating on ur boyfriend, i think it does mean that i say stop cheating n do that you think is right
2006-06-29 13:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by geigerjanelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋