why is it wrong to be gay or why is gay marrige bad why is it not people creature!?

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with being gay. It's the way that society percieves us. Gay marriage isn't bad. People are just stupid.

Answer 2

Your post doesn't make much sense but I'll try to answer. It isn't necessarily wrong to be gay, it's just not the way it was supposed to be. There's a reason only men and women can reproduce, and there's a reason male and female sex organs are opposites... so they go together. I'm not a homophobe, date whatever or whoever you want... but I don't want to see you kissing on the street because it is something that I am somewhat disgusted by. I don't like seeing straight people practically getting it on in the street, let alone people of the same sex. I think gays should be able to be JOINED, not married, because I would be so unhappy if I was told I couldn't marry the love of my life. But there should be different laws and boundaries to gay marriages, the joining of a man and a woman in marriage should be something that is only for a man and a woman.

Answer 3

Nothing about being gay or gay marriage is wrong. It is fear and misunderstanding that causes people to think that way.

Contrary to one opinion stated above...that if you allow homosexual marriage, u should allow bi sexual.....ummm no. See what hetero and homo- sexual marriage have in common is the joining of 2 people. Group marriage etc isnt even an issue on the table for me. Wouldn't the logical line to draw be at monogamy? Even if you are bisexual, choose one man OR one woman, and commit yourself to that ONE person.

Any church that is open to the idea of a ceremony should be allowed to perform it. Churches that are not, should never be forced to.

But to say tax purposes is one of the reasons that the line should be drawn at a man and a woman is, well...almost insulting to gays. That's like saying, you can be or love anyone you want...BUT if you chose this way ya get a special bonus? That's just kinda unfair, in my humble opinion. If to men or women are both working equally hard, paying the same bills and living in the same economic society, shouldn't they be entitled to the same tax cuts, bills, or breaks?? I mean hell, if being married meant ya had to pay an extra $$$ per year, gays should still have to pay that too if they're married. Equality, whether it's good or bad.

Everyone should have to live by the same set of standards and laws. I don;t want to see any two people displaying and overt amount of affection in public. Gay straight, old young, black or white, makes no difference. We should all behave appropriately and carry ourselves with dignity.

Furthermore, the arguement that the bible says it's wrong doesn;t really hold water anymore either. The bible also says a woman Must be a virgin at the alter or she should be stoned to death immediately. It also says divorce is wrong ( I think). How is it fair to pick and choose what aspects of the bible can be overlooked as it suits our purposes. Commiting adultery is one of the commandments. Why can an adulterer remarry as many times as he or she chooses?

Answer 4

Whoa, slow down. Gay being "wrong" and gay marriage are two completely different issues, and I really think the majority of people do see them as two different issues regardless of what their opinions are about them.
First off, I don't think about whether or not being gay is wrong. I'm not gay. Whatever they want to do is fine by me, as long as they're leaving me alone. Why should I care? I won't bother them as long as they don't bother me.
But.....I am against gay marriage. Not because I'm homophobic or racist or sexist or any other "ist". My reasons are logical and thought out. I'm also against one man marrying two or more women. Or one woman marrying two or more men. Or a bisexual marrying one man and one woman. I guess you have to draw the line somewhere as to what marriage is or isn't. If you allow "gay marriages", then logically you have to allow bisexual marriages to be fair. And if you allow the bisexuals to be married to 2 or more partners, then why can't the Mormons be polygamist?
Actually, in an ideal world, I don't think it's the government's business how we marry. But we're not in an ideal world. I really think anybody can have a ceremony and marry whoever they want. But for tax purposes, etc., I think we need to have marriage defined, and the system of having one woman married to one man is kind of where we ought to draw the line if we're going to draw the line anywhere. Just my opinion. If you're going to have a line then that's where I think it should be. Now if two guys wanna shack up and go at it, they can be my neighbors, OK. No problem. But I think marriage should legally be 1 man, 1 woman.

Answer 5

It isn't bad or wrong. People with certain religious beliefs think so, but that doesn't mean they are right. The majority of people speaking out about homosexuality are fundamentalist Christians, and I maintain that if God or Jesus thought it was wrong, they would have said so in the bible accounts. Paul doesn't count, people! He was a fallible man with his own hang-ups.

Also, it isn't any creepier for a gay man to proposition a teenage boy than it is for a straight man to proposition a teenage girl. Both are aberrant behavior.

Answer 6

it is wrong to be gay bcuz in the bible it says that marraige is for man and woman not man and man or woman and woman. that is y it is wrong but on the other hand u shouldnt be treated differently bcuz of ur orientation, u cant help it. and even if u r god still loves u and i am sure that u have other people that love u. u just need to ask god for forgiveness and he will save u and forgive u for any sin as long as u mean it when u ask him to forgive u.

Answer 7

There's nothing wrong being a gay... I have friends who are gays ang I'm proud of them... It is the church who is against about it... I think that the church officials forgot that we are only human and so are they , we are not perfect... they said that we should not judge other people then what do they think they're doing? Don't be afraid to express yourself because throgh that you will know who your real friends are.... I f you want I can be one of them... just buzz me....

Answer 8

the only thing wrong with being gay is probably the fact that you have to put up with the torture of small minded people there is nothing wrong with marriage of any kind

Answer 9

Neither is wrong or bad. I am a good person who wishes to marry the person I love, that's not bad... alas, I don't believe that will ever happen in the US in my lifetime... I'll probably have to leave the country to marry the most loving, caring, gentle, honest person I've ever known...

Answer 10

I am a Christian and the Bible says its wrong. And even if it didn't its still sick if you ask me. When Brokeback Mtn came out I didn't know what it was about and we started watching it and turned it off, that is just nasty!!!!



Marriage is between a MAN and A WOMAN!!!!!!!!!