everyone else has in my school girls een younger than me! and now im in love and i know i am ready and im really am in love wit him we been daten for 5 months now soon 2 be 7 so i know im ready but im afraid of getting called so where should i have it at my mom wont let us go 2 my room but we can walk to a gas station near by but there's not much of anywhere there either then she also lets us walk up on the big hill but i have 2 take my lil sis who's 2 tho she can't talk yet, then we have an attic butwhat you think? plzz.. help me!
2006-06-29 12:24:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
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2006-06-29 12:26:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
to be honest im 15 and have been wit the guy i love for almost 2 yrs and is now thinking bout wether i should loose it wit him or not
well my point is that 5 months probably isnt enough time to consider loosing it to him, i understand u feel dat u love him and everything cus wen i was wit my bf for 5 months i was loving him too and i was 14 also, but even then we didnt think much on sex yet
but like people said earlier, u should wait and if do it when your actually able to find a specail place(unlike a gas station) loosing ure virginity is a once in a lifetime thing with only 1 person u wanna make sure hes the right person and dat its specail place when u do it (my opinion)
just remember its not always a for sure positive thing 2 loose ure virginity at our age but if u really are ppllzz use protection, i mean even at dat me and my bf were having just a lil 2nd thoughts about actually haing sex b/c of the consequences.
2006-06-29 12:46:31 · answer #2 · answered by nena_phantasy11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love? your 14 i know how would iknow how u feel well 14 you arent even fully developed yet. if you cant find a place those are signs sweetheart. there's a time for everything. and the last thing you want to do is lose your virginty when you arent ready do you know many girls bleed?? so are you gonna bleed down a hill??? you need a asafe comfortable place, as well as a respectful person and relationship. JUST WAIT till the time is right . and those lil skanks in your school are gonna either end up pregnant or with some type of STD (sexually transmitted desease) you probably don't even know much about those either
2006-06-30 06:23:44 · answer #3 · answered by jennyo2850 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, 14 is so very young to start having sex. You have so many years ahead of you. Don't rush these things. If you don't even know where to sneak away to, isn't that a good sign that it is a bad idea?
Your first sexual encounter should be a beautiful thing, not five stolen minutes behind the neighbor's garage. It is best if you wait until marriage.
If you are going to go ahead with this anyway, I trust you are on birth control to protect yourself from pregnancy, and how do you protect yourself from the other partners he may have had? There are many diseases out there. If you catch one, it will be with you for the rest of your life.
Sex just isn't worth all the hassles and potential problems. Just wait, if it is true love then you will marry him someday, and have a great sex life, germ free.
2006-06-29 12:33:05 · answer #4 · answered by mar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa...i don't wanna tell you how to lead your life, but you seriously gottta reconsider about it. Your 14 now, despite what you may think YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG to get involve in sex. I'm sure you' heard it alot but remember this 7 in every 10 relationshipss that end in sex often also end with somene getting pregnent. And a further 3 out of 5 relationship that has sex often leaves with the guy walking out on the girl, because he's already got what he wants and or isn't satisfied by it. I'm sure your 'special' someone will say alll the sweetest things just to get into yur pants but remember this as well, if he loves you truely then he'd respect your decission without questioning it. Go ahead just try it, tell him you don't wanna do it, just to see how he'd react...i can assure you it's going to be something you never expected from your "special" guy...whatca got to lose...
2006-06-29 12:32:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't pay rent for your own place, pay your own bills or even drive, then you shouldn't be having sex. You will regret losing your innocence so young and your bf probably doesnt know what he's doing and make you feel completely unfulfilled.
He probably isn't the guy you're going to marry and you're probably not even going to be with him another 7 months.
Do me a favor, if you completely ignore my previous advice, at least do this: go to the health department and get condoms. Even dirty little 14 year old boys (not to mention older ones) can get you pregnant and give you all kinds of nasty diseases. If he doesn't want to wear one then he doesnt love you.
2006-06-29 12:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Sara B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, first of all, don't you mean 5 months soon to be 6 instead of 7? Maybe you should wait until you can count to have sex. Seriously, though, you should wait. AND DON'T EVEN THINK ABOUT HAVING SEX ON THE HILL IN FRONT OF YOUR 2-YEAR-OLD SISTER. THAT IS DISGUSTING AND COULD BE TRAUMATIZING FOR HER!!! Just because all the little hoes at your school are having sex doesn't mean you should. If everyone else jumped off a bridge, would you follow them and jump off too??? Be your own person. PLEASE!
2006-06-29 17:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just so you know it is illegal to have sex before you're sixteen. I would wait AND talk to your mom(or some female relative type person) chances are she has some veiws on it. If she says its your decision then I would say your room cuz who wants there first time to be at a gas station?! If you don't feel comfortable talking about than I would say you're not mature enough.
2006-06-29 12:32:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 14 too and alot of people (i no its a shocker) but r not virgins but the poeple the lost it to also thought that they were in love and now they all hat eeach other but who am i or any one else to tell u if ur truly in love? but u r 14 and the legal age is 18 and yes amost everybody loses it b4 then but when ur 14 ur still growing changin ur ming constatly and ur hormoines r going crazy but remember if u do make him wear protection u dont want to be a parent at 14!
2006-06-29 13:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not have sex in front of your sister. also, this is suppossed to be a magical first time, do you want your first time to be in a gas station bathroom or in the dirt??find out what time his parents go to work, then make up and excuse to get out, anything, going to a friends whatever, then go his house and lock his bed room door and make sure he has a condom, cause babys are no joke.also, you could skip school. but do not do it in your house, a boys parents dont get as upset as a girls parents do.
2006-06-29 12:32:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 13. that's incorrect. do not do it. do no longer make someone youthful than you smarter than you. heavily. xD merely because he SAYS he's a virgin would not advise he's. And if he is going round and tells human beings you had sex with him, rumors will commence, and also you'll be perceived as a slut. do no longer do this until eventually you're waiting. do no longer do this merely because he needs you to. somewhat, i'd chop up with him. And, you may want to both get in a great number of problem if someone catches you, and probability is they are going to. Ever heard of statutory rape? Yeah. it will be conscious to you both, i trust. Your father and mother would even get in problem. that is not any longer nicely worth it. in case you somewhat love him, and he somewhat somewhat somewhat loves you, and would not merely opt to get his rocks off, then flow ahead, yet i am hoping you sense ashamed after having meaningless sex, inclusive of not one of the above applies to you.
2016-10-13 23:26:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋