I am a mother of 3 beautiful children and I work an 8 to 5 job. But lately I feel no attraction towards my partner. There is no intimacy within our relationship. It's not him it is me and I can admitt that. I would like to here from women that have been or are in my shoes.
2006-06-29 11:48:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
1: evaluate your relationship, you could both just be tired.
2: get a babysitter and go on a Date! A real date, get dressed up, go to a movie, have a nice dinner, do something romantic and try to be sure the evening is dedicated just to yourselves. Make-out.... you don't have to have
s-e-x if neither of you is up to it.
3: excercising can raise your endorphines, help you feel better, less tired, healthier and better about yourself- he should excercise as well- you guys have children's futures to look forward to- so stay healthy..
4: talk to one another- go for a twenty minute walk or do some simple gardening together- you need to reconnect with one another as man and woman not just -husband/wife or mommy/daddy- your grown ups Say what's on Your mind- you may actually find something out about eachother that you don't already know. If possible try to talk about Happy things .
5: find a place where you can get a massage together, the rushing blood will make you both feel invigorated-
6: is you feel very bad, and aren't opening up I would consider talking to a doctor or a counselor -
7: Turn off the TV and do something together! Turn on the radio and play some songs you both grew up too, remember the good old days...
Good Luck...
2006-06-29 12:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married 18 yrs. 4 children, and work a full time job in a factory and a part time job at McDonalds. You have to get a different view on sex. Have it more often and you will learn to enjoy it again.
2006-06-29 18:51:47 · answer #2 · answered by nemraC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK MAYBE THE 2 OF YOU NEED TO MAKE RESERVATIONS AT A NICE LOCAL MOTEL FOR THE WEEKEND,GO OUT TO DINNER TAKE A NICE WALK AND TALK ,YOU NO A DATE . SEE IF A FAMILY MEMBER WILL WATCH THE KIDS ,YOU PROBABLY NEED SOME YOU 2 TIME.IF YOU HAVE VACATION TIME MAYBE YOU AND YOUR PARTNER CAN GO ON ONE OF THOSE BAHAMA CRUISES .MY DAUGHTER AND HER HUSBAND DID AND IT WAS FAIRLY CHEEP,THEY HAD A GREAT TIME .MAYBE ORDER A BOTTLE OF BUBBLY.IT SOUNDS LIKE YOUR IN A RUT AND NEED A LITTLE MOTIVATION TO GET STARTED AGAIN.GOOD LUCK.
2006-06-29 19:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by mschicky58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the female version of Viagra. It raises the women's hormone level and gets a woman ready to do it, just like viagra helps men. I forgot the name of it though... Call your doctor.
I think it's by bristol myers.
2006-06-29 18:52:46 · answer #4 · answered by stick man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋