I'm not sure where to stand with their problem. He is 18 & she is 17. She is a foster child and has basically a terrible life and is not the best person in the world. The state of Florida is now saying that the father can not & never have anything to do with the baby. My boyfriend & his family are trying to support them. I dont want to support them because I think it is completely wrong, I dont know where to stand. =/
2006-06-29 11:27:37 · 11 answers · asked by X0_JUSTxF0RxFUN 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You just said where you stand on it
2006-06-29 11:29:41 · answer #1 · answered by Pretty Brown Eyes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to agree with someone to be supportive. All it requires is that you don't make their journey more difficult. It is a misnomer to think we have to like a person, agree with them or respect their decisions in order to provide basic human kindness. As a pregnant teen and foster child she will face many uphill battles. A little compassion would go a long way to make the journey a little less difficult to walk.
2006-06-29 11:31:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are the state of Florida saying that he can't see his kid if he wants to? Is it because she is underage? That's stupid.
Why do you think it's so wrong? They're together and being responsible aren't they? If you really disapprove that much I'd just keep your mouth shut - your boyfriend will probably ditch you if he sees that you are being so judgemental about his best mate when he's having such a tough time of it.
2006-06-29 11:31:59 · answer #3 · answered by sallybowles 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PERSONALLY YOU SHOULDN'T STAND ANYWHERE IN THAT SITUATION.IT'S NONE OF YOUR BUSINESS,IF YOUR BOYFRIEND DECIDES TO HELP HIS FRIEND OUT IN HIS TIME OF NEED THEN WHAT DOES THAT HAVE TO DO WITH YOU?AND WHO ARE YOU TO DETERMINE WHAT KIND OF PERSON SHE IS ARE YOU SOME TYPE OF SAINT?THE GIRL IS ONLY 17 SHE HAS THE REST OF HER LIFE TO BE THE BEST PERSON SHE CAN BE SHE'S STILL LEARNING EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES AND WHO ARE WE TO JUDGE THEM BECAUSE OF THE LIFE THAT THEY WERE BORN INTO IF SHE IS A FOSTER CHILD SHE DIDN'T CHOOSE TO BE ONE.
2006-06-29 11:46:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had my first child at 15yrs. old. it's not an easy road to travel. i can't say wheather it's right or wrong, but it happens sometimes. if you are a good friend you will be behind her for support.
2006-06-29 11:39:04 · answer #5 · answered by silver tongue 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not really your place to support them or not. If you think it's wrong then that's fine for you but it does kind of make you heartless. Think how they feel.
2006-06-29 11:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by lex83201 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By saying it's wrong, that tells you where you stand on it. Stay out of it, for your own sake!
2006-06-29 11:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Janet K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can stop others from doing this mistake by introducing ur religion n eliminating nudity from ur media.
2006-06-29 11:34:49 · answer #8 · answered by alikasi2005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they made a mistake and you are a bad friend, they sure wouldve supported you!
2006-06-29 11:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should open your legs and guide him to his right target
2006-06-29 11:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by hunga bunga 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋