I CANT TELL IF MY PARENTS ARE OVERPROTECTIVE BUT IF YOU HAVE ANY SIGNS OF OVERPROTECTIVE PARENTS OR IF MINE ARE. They get mad if a boy likes me, if i of my BFF like or are liked, asking lovelife questions i think i old enough to liked somrbody becuz ive been you to dances. alone of couse but with a carpool friend. So wut do you think???
2006-06-29 11:16:34 · 11 answers · asked by Santa's Personal Shopper 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
here is a repeat since ypou didn't understand. I dont know if my parents are overprotective but they dont let me liked or be liked by boys. i know the love me but i am the only one who hasnt been with someone to the school dances. does anyoe have signs or stories about overprotective parents.
2006-06-29 11:27:50 · update #1
Your parents love you very much, there is not such thing as being overprotective. I tell my children this: It is your decisions on how much freedom you want and how much you keep. You can have as much freedom as you want. The cost of this?
TRUST!
2006-06-29 11:23:46 · answer #1 · answered by LO 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
being overprotective doesn't allow children to learn to do things on their own. One example, if a bully is harassing your child, removing them from school and home-schooling them wont fix the problem, because the child is "running" from the problem rather than facing it.The time of adolescence in an individual’s life is the time in which one grows physically, intellectually, and socially. Overprotective parents have started to stunt the growth and development of a child during adolescence. The problems that stem from overprotective parents are not only seen during the teenage years, but also carry over into young adulthood. Overprotective parents create socially, emotionally, and physically dysfunctional young adults through their intense focus on success for their children, rather than caring for them and doing what is best for them. This, in the end, will cause young people that have been victimized by overprotective parents to crumble under the difficult situations that life has to offer during the maturing process.The damage that is done to a child’s social skills by over bearing parents is something that cannot be repaired. Overprotective parents either pick and choose the friends their son or daughter can hang out with or they do not let them have a social life at all. This decision is harmful to the progression of a child’s personality. ). The psychiatric and emotional setbacks that a child faces when their parents make decisions that are vital in developing their identity are damaging in the maturing process of the child. Their is more, but I am only able to type so much, hope my response was helpful, I also wrote a paper on overprotective parents, so I'm pretty knowledgeable about the subject. Good Luck
2016-03-26 22:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...umm...well i think that your parents seem a little over protective, but I see that you have read my question so I think that you should be happy that they even let you go to dances... and ...lol.... no I do not still go trick or treating... I was just giving examples of all of the things my parents have kept me from experiencing in life that most children get to experience...good luck with your parents...I tried some of the advise that I got on here and it blew up in my face...my dad is sooo pi**ed at me. I think he is gonna get rid of my car now...so be careful whose advise you take on here......
2006-06-30 03:29:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are under 16, your parents have the right to do whatever they want. That is hard, I know, but they do love you and want what's best for you. Hang in there and good luck!
2006-06-29 11:20:32 · answer #4 · answered by altruistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your parents must be right. Maybe after you master the English language a little better and learn to express yourself in a more adult like way they will let up a little.
2006-06-29 11:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by educated guess 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Talk to your parents and tell them that you are not a child. And that you want to be treated like an adult.
2006-06-29 11:25:51 · answer #6 · answered by elc9933 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think parents should be over protective...it save u from many many problems...its not easy to face the the world alone...u should enjoy this protection as long as God gives u...its a blessing...
2006-06-29 11:27:38 · answer #7 · answered by anonymous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just cautious which is important nowadays. If they did not love you they would not care who you saw. Let the guy "prove" himself to your parents. My daughters did and know we are crazy about their husbands
2006-07-10 09:44:39 · answer #8 · answered by suzanne_sauls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't know because i can't read and understand what you wrote! pease try to write things correctly so that we could actually help you w/ your questions.
2006-06-29 11:20:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
lather rinse repeat, got it!
2006-06-29 11:23:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋