I think I'm attracted to girls. I like looking at hot guys, but I find that I'm looking at girls too. I even watch lesbian porn sometimes. I think I'm bisexual but I don't know how to accept this and tell my family and friends without losing their respect.
2006-06-29 11:15:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It's a feeling, not something you find out. Being bi is not a bad thing. You haven't given up on guys. I've always had a firm belief that your sexual feelings is your business . No one else needs to know.
Let's just say when you know what you want, then tell them. This could just be a phase you're going through. You'll also know the best time to tell them.
Good luck
2006-06-29 11:26:52 · answer #1 · answered by just me 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You are going to have these feelings whether the fam and friends approve or not, so you should just tell a trusted friend whose opinion you value, and who won't judge you, then go from there. I also went through a simiar phase, it turned out to be just that, a phase. But I had fun experimenting in the process. It is nothing to be ashamed of. Perfectly natural. I believe everyone goes through it but some people are to affraid of what others think to be honest about it. You are a very open person to be sharing something like this, so at least you are true to yourself! If your friends and family love you, they will not judge you or lose respect for you. Blessed Be!
2006-06-29 11:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lotus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OK you might not be... be bi means your OK and have the same feelings for girls as you do guys ..you can be sexually attracted to girls and not be bi. so think about this do you have the same feelings for a girl as you do a guy can you have a relationship with a girl and tell people and if you can then tell everyone of your friends the ones that stay are your friends the ones that leave just wanted something from you.
2006-06-29 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, before you mistakenly 'out' yourself, talk to someone like a counselor to discover where you are in your life. It's been my observation that women check out other women all the time. Spare yourself and others the trauma of such an announcement until you're certain. And if you discover you are, I don't think it's that big of a deal in today's society. Good luck.
2006-06-29 11:52:07 · answer #4 · answered by Mike 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i KNOW i am attracted to both genders. i have only been with guys however. look, how you feel is who you are... if you cant accept these feelings than you cant expect those you love to accept them either. and if you ARE bi and you choose to tell your loved ones, they will support you if they care at all about your own happiness. Good luck and always follow your heart to find your own happiness. if they dont support you than they dont deserve your love/friendship
2006-06-29 11:59:54 · answer #5 · answered by sandy_beaches 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think statistically social accepts Bisexual women more than men, cant really give you any more advice.
2006-06-29 11:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it a try. Practice on a plastic device resembling a labia. Get down to basics. If you like it, try it with a friend.
2006-06-29 11:21:06 · answer #7 · answered by green3ch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't respect you for who you are they are'nt worth worrying about anyway.
2006-06-29 11:19:04 · answer #8 · answered by Troy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
almost everything we do is a choice.
2006-06-29 11:19:50 · answer #9 · answered by zqx357 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK U R RIGHT ........ WE DONT KNOW WHEATHER WE R BISEXUAL OR NOT.............
2006-06-29 11:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by *Neha.* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋