she makes fun of me (not because im goth) because I'm handicapped and her mother (we're step sisters, she comes here everyother weekend) thinks its ok.
i really need help to stand up to her. will anyone help out?
2006-06-29 11:07:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you could learn to ignore her bad energy and just focus on how you feel about yourself, then it won't matter what she says to you. Live your own life and let karma kick her in the ***!!!!!!!!!
2006-06-29 14:13:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's called "bad mouthing" because it makes HER mouth look bad. Refuse to stoop to her level. Simply consider the source and rise above it. Say things like "You seem to have a lot issues today. Are you feeling OK?" and MEAN them. Also, laugh at her, not in a nasty way, but get your mind to where you genuinely find it funny that she is so obsessed with annoying you and can't succeed. Learn to say AND MEAN things like "You seem awfully upset. Why? I'm not angry with you, and I don't understand why you're angry with me."
When she stops getting the reaction she craves (your being hurt and upset), she will stop doing it.
2006-06-29 18:21:49 · answer #2 · answered by kill_yr_television 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you f***** serious, what a *****, i'll kick your step-sisters a** that's unacceptable, my mom was in a wheelchair and a few of my friends have had other medical conditions so i understand, just try to inore it for now, and if you need to talk you can i.m. me
later
2006-06-29 18:10:40 · answer #3 · answered by wohooalicia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just so wrong of your stepsister. Tell your parents. Your stepmother will just back up her daughter.
2006-06-29 18:11:47 · answer #4 · answered by Mimi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋