my little sister is 12 and pregnant?

Question

what should i do. it is a twin pregnancy. she told me and i took her to the doctors. but our parents dont know. what should we do. the babys father is a good boy. he is 13.

Answer 1

I'm not even going to get started on WHY your sister was having sex that young in the first place. You have to get her to tell your parents. She needs to decide if she's going to keep the baby or give it up for adoption or raise it herself. Your parents are going to have to help her A LOT. It's going to be hard and scary for her to talk to them, but the sooner she gets it over with the better.

Answer 2

First and foremost, do not take advice from anyone on whether or not to terminate the pregnancy or to give the baby up for adoption. That is something that cannot be answered by someone else because everyone has there own thoughts and feeling and even religious beliefs on the matter. The only people that can take part in that decision are the two involved in the pregnancy, their parents, and your doctor. The best thing to do is absolutely tell someone. I would recomend parents first, but if you don't feel like you can, go to a school counselor, a trusted pastor, or any responsible adult that you feel comfortable talking with. Make sure that you get as much info about your options as you can possibly get your hands on. A good reason to tell your parents, is that if you do as a family decide to keep this baby, they will most likely have to play a big part in the raising of this child. Both your parents and the boys parents but mostly yours. Please know that as long as the both of you try to handle this in the best way possible, and you change your ways in the future, there is nothing bad about either of you. No it is not good to have sex at your age, but you already have and you can't go back and change that now. Just know that even though you have already made the decision to have sex, it doesn't mean that you can't change that decision in the future and make a better life for yourself and the baby if you do decide to keep it. Definately get help from an adult that you trust.

Answer 3

well, tell your parents. But she needs to do that. If it helps, sit with her when she does. They are not going to be happy, but they love you both and will be supportive. She needs to get the right doctor care.. twins are hard to carry no matter what even for older women, a 12 year old, even though she is physically able, does not have the mature body she needs to carry a baby. Its possible, but it will be harder. Get the father involved.. if he really is a good boy, as scared as this is for him he will want to be part of the decision making process. Most of all, continue being a good big sister.. your little sister needs alot of help right now. Good Luck

Answer 4

Tell your parents. She is going to need alot of help since she is so young. Please help her in any way that you can. Be very supportive. I think its wonderful that you are helping her . You are a great sister. Sit down with your sister and let her hold your hand when she tells your parents. They will be upset , buy after awhile it will pass and than they will be excited about their grandchildren. Don't let her get an abortion either . If there is no way that your family can help her than she can give the babies up for adoption. Many people would love to have twins. I know I would !

Answer 5

first, tell your parents. THEY NEED TO KNOW ABOUT THIS. if she and the father can't take care of the baby then she should get an abortion. she's 12. she can't work. not even in high school yet. can't get a education. who the hell is gonna raise the babies? your parents?! they have jobs to go to and they gotta pay the house bills and all those other bills like doctor etc...
plus they have to take care of you. so abortion is the best way to go since she's so young. but if you guys are filty rich then you could hire a nanny.
think of it this way. she don't get an abortion and ends up raising twin at 12 or 13! how the hell is she going to do that?! she can't!
she'll screw up her life and her kids as well because she can't raise them. and it's really hard to raise kids in the world we live in today.
so i would say ABORTION IS THE ANSWER.

Answer 6

First I got to say WHAT WAS SHE THINKING??????? now I would totally tell ur parents they are going to find out sooner or later.They really need to know they might be mad or furious BUT they can help more than anyone. The babys father maybe a good boy but he doesn't know how to take care of a BABY. (does he??) Think about it. Do u really think that 2 13 year olds can raise a baby w/o the help of parents or advice. TELL YOUR PARENTS!!!! That would be the BEST advice.

Answer 7

Speaking from experience, I had twins at 19, and I barely could do it then. 12 is way to young to have children. I won't say wether or not abortion is wrong or right, but she should enjoy being a kid. At 12, I can't believe she even knows enough about sex, to practice it. If you're going to play you have to pay. She should take care of it as soon as possible and being her sister you should support her and let her know that she should do the right thing. After all kids should not raise kids.

Answer 8

Uh..13 year old "good" boys don't have sex.

Anyway, you have zero choice, you need to tell your parents immediately. Your sister is really too young in EVERY respect to even consider continuing this pregnancy. In most states she could get an abortion without your parents knowing, but seriously this is such an important decision and either way will impact her for life so tell your mom. NOW!

Answer 9

Your sister better not get an abortion. She should tell your parents because they will find out sooner or later and better sooner than later. And maybe the father and your sister could arrange something or give the baby up for adaption.


P.S what was your sister thinking when she did it..... She is 12..

Answer 10

Apparently hes not to good a boy, if hes going going to be a father at 13-14. I'd check into weather the hospital has local adoption , or have her parents sign up for welfare.