I'm going to an all-girls jewish camp for 3 weeks and I have no clue what to do. I've never just hung out with all-girls (most of my friends at home are guys), and I have no clue how to survive being orthodox for 3 weeks cause im definetely reform. Most of these girls probably know each other from before and I'm completely new. I usually make friends easier with guys, cause I can just be myself around them and I know they're not talking about me behind my back. What should I do to make friends easier. I'm really outgoing, but I tend to talk a lot and annoy people because of it. And what do I do about the guy back home that I really like and have been casually seeing? Or would me panicking about him finding some really gorgeous and talented blonde college girl, be very pathetic of me?
2006-06-29 10:48:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Other - Destinations
Wow. That's a bummer. I guess just try to make some friends, and be yourself around them so if they do talk behind your back, you don't have to regret how you acted. Try not to care so much of what they think, its jewish camp. You might never see them again in your life. And about the guy? Call him, write him, keep in touch. So if he finds a georgeous talented blonde in college, he'll keep you in mind before running off with her.
2006-06-29 10:55:36 · answer #1 · answered by DeAd DiScO 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, im a jewish guy. and the best advice i can give you is just go with the flow. what i mean is just kind of lay low and try to find out what these girls are interested in then build on that (im sorry, but i don't converse alot with orthodox jewish girls, so i don't know what they're interested in)
and about your other question, if the guy your seeing is really into you, he won't go off with another girl. good luck!
2006-06-29 17:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Phil's Afternooner 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it one day at a time girly. I was in basic training in the Army living with 70+ girls for 10 weeks. I am the same way you are, I don't get along with females very easily either. You are going to be ok.
2006-06-29 17:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Callie Ann ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm going to a camp in a few days actually and most of the rules are so stupid, it doesn't sound like it'll me fun but I guess my advice for you is just try to take it as a time of relaxing and since we don't know the people going then we can act as crazy as we want :-)
2006-06-29 17:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Lidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't panic! The odd's are against your guy getting into a new relationship. As for camp, don't be too shy. If you make real freinds, they'll stand up for you, not stab you in the back. Try to fit in, but don't try conspicuously hard.
2006-06-29 17:54:28 · answer #5 · answered by campadrenalin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone special and play some dradel lol but really just talk to as many ppl as you can and make some new friends. oh yeah and have fun no matter what you do!!!!
2006-06-29 17:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Lenegan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have fun make new friends talk about girly stuff do each otehrs hair and nails - it will be fun if you want it to be!!!!
how do you know they know each other?!?!?! how do you know they are not in the same boat you are!!!
2006-06-29 17:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Shopaholic Chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say a bracha and go for it!
2006-06-29 17:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun!
2006-06-29 17:53:20 · answer #9 · answered by cutie shelby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever you do dont make a fool of yourself
2006-06-29 17:52:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋