my best friend is pregnant...?

Question

what do i do when i just found out that my best friend is pregnant and she is only 15......im the only one who know besides her and she doesnt want to tell her parents....shes verry confused and she tells me that she doesnt wanna be a mom and that she doesnt kno how....CAN U PLEASE GIVE ME SOME IDEAS AND HELP ON WUT 2 DO??:(

Answer 1

She needs to be very frank with her parents... And explain everything.. If they love her, they will support her and help with the baby...

But that is the best first course..

Answer 2

sooner or later her parents have to know. Tell the guy that got her pregnant. Once one start having sex it is always a possibility that the female can get pregnant if protection /birth controll is not used. She is saying that she do not want a baby but pleasedo not encourage her to get an abortion beecause this can affect her in a verry negative way for a long time even for life. TRY TO GET INTO A WOMENS CENTER AN TALK TO A COUNCELER THERE FOR ADVICE ON WHAT TO DO.

Answer 3

although this is a scary time for her, she really needs to confide in an adult, prenatal care is very important, and she made an adult decision to have sex so she needs to be able to behave as an adult and face her parents, they will probably get mad or upset but trying to hide it will only make it worse. Having a baby is huge and the faster she gets an adult involved the better her chances are of doing what is right for her, I personally dont believe in abortion but she would need her parents consent if that was the route she wanted to go, then there is adoption but now is the time to act ....the further along she gets the harder it becomes. You just be her friend, love and support her, and never judge her or critisize her, hold her when she needs to be held, take care of her when she is sick, and talk to her or listen to her when no one else will...she needs a friend, so be that...thats about all you can do.

Answer 4

sounds like a problem. How did she found out that she is pregnant? Some tests are not accurate, so first thing you may wanna do is going and buying a new test with her and doing it together. If it's still positive she needs to have an appointment with her doc. The doctor can't tell her parents, but she needs to have medical attention.
And you should talk her into talking to her parents or a school counselor. But at least see a doctor!

Answer 5

Well there are options that she needs to weight carefully.
She needs to figure out what she want to do and then tell her parents.
You need to be there for her right now more than ever. I know you don't know what to say to her as you are to young.
But I think that what ever she decides you should ask her if she want you to be there with her when she tells her parents.
If she decides not to have it or to have it she really needs you right now.

Be strong for your friend and let her know that you love her and your by her side in this.
If she decides not to have it and you and her and the boy can scrap up the money without telling her parents she may opt for an abortion. I AM PRO CHOICE. But that does not mean that you and she are.
But a lot of things will dictate the out come of this Religious views of her parent and her. Financial means and state of mind.
She's got a road ahead of her be there for her.
If she decides to have it stay her friend even if she can't go here or there and do this or that.
LOVE YOUR FRIEND SHE NEEDS YOU RIGHT NOW!!

Answer 6

i think that you should just be there for her cause this is a very tough time when your pregnant and only 15, i dont believe in abortions so if she doesnt want to be a mom, have the baby and give it up for adoption. But she should for sure tell her parents so she can start going to the doctors and stuff.

Answer 7

When I was 16 I became pregnant and was terrified to let anyone know, but when I got the nerve to tell my family and friends i was glad I did. Your friend needs all the support she can use right now. She doesnt need to keep the child. I didnt and even though it hurts she is doing the right thing. My daughter will be 26 in Aug and I hope that she will look for me. I gave her up so she could have a good life. Please tell her to let her family know. Im sure they will be dissapointed at first but they will be there for her

Answer 8

Sucks to be in her position. I was there at 17. You guys are gonna have to tell her parents or atleast the parent she is closest to. Believe me her parents dont want her to be a mom either. Stay with her when she tells them if she doesnt want to do it alone. It helped me a little. How pregnant is she? If she isnt too far along abortion is not out of the question. I do not agree with abortion but hey a 15yr old being a mom isnt exactly a good life for a little one. Abortions arent exactly cheap either so her parents are going to help with the cost. They arent going to hate you for it. May they be mad at you and ground you yess probably. But u as a 15yr old should try a little harder not to be sexually active and if you are for fukks sake use a condom. But yea tell them. You are their baby they dont need a grandchild YET!

Answer 9

Looking for love in all the wrong places....Anyway, there are only 2 things you can do, get an abortion or have the baby. She's gonna have to make up her mind soon cause time is ticking away. If she decides to have an abortion, she should go on birth control since it seems that she is sexually active. It's a shame that young ladies are just having casual sex, as if it's a game or something.

Answer 10

this is difficulct since you are both very young and she has put all of the preassure on you to keep it a secret. in the end she will have to tell her parents, there is no doubt about it, but first you must figure out what to do. there are plenty of advice lines you can ring or email who are better at giving advice than i am - just type "advice" into yahoo or google. one thing you can do though, is just be there and support her, no matter what anyone says or does, because she will be going through some of the toughest times in her life.

Answer 11

You are her best friend and you should be there for her. That does not mean tell her parents for her. That is one of the worst things you can do! Try encouraging her to tell them. Be positive and give her the positive points of telling them. They could be mad but they are her parents and they will figure something out together.

Sometimes the hardest part about being the best friend is just being the positive shoulder to lean on.