Do you tell her??? She already knows he had an affair...but she does not know that he is still pursuing this girl!! Do you tell her???
2006-06-29 10:32:36 · 7 answers · asked by SusieQFish 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes tell her, and tell her fast... he has already done it before, and if she forgave him for that, then he should know better... if i was your friend i would dump him as soon as possible. he obviuosly doesnt love her enough and does not respect her as a woman to change his ways... if he wants to be with other girls, he should be single... not married.
2006-06-29 10:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by LiLiTh 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Honestly, that is a sticky situation. Do you know because of intuition, or do you have hard factual evidence you can show her? If you are just basing this off what your saw or just how he acts, I would not tell her. It is hard but I just lost my best friend of 18 years because I just "knew" her boyfriend was cheating on her. There was a lot more to the story to cause the end but that is what started the downward spiral. Telling her could cause her to turn her hurt and anger to you. It could put a strain on your relationship with her. I would not advise it. If you do have some hard proof (i.e a picture of the "happy couple") then I would let her know. She could not logically negate your feelings and it is a lot more help to have something like that on hand rather than to just go in empty handed.
If you are going to tell her, do it in a neutral area like a restaurant or coffee shop. Never break bad news in a personal place. Ease into it and let her lead the conversation. Answer all questions to the best of your ability and no matter how hard it may be never make negative comments about the hubby. After all, even though he is being unfaithful, he is still her husband.
I wish you luck!
2006-06-29 10:41:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to know but it could end your friendship. Have you guys ever talked about it ? Is she the type of person that would want to know ? I hate to say it but I find most people live with the "ignorance is bliss" thing.
2006-06-29 10:36:44 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes tell her, if you really are her BEST FRIEND you need to tell her.
xo.
2006-06-29 10:57:57 · answer #4 · answered by <3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can try but it does not work telling a guy his wife is cheating. They shoot the messenger
2006-06-29 10:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by Mr nice guy 2U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course.. you tell it is best for the both of you...because you wont have to be afraid ...her she needs to know
2006-06-29 10:39:34 · answer #6 · answered by feyentihw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, she should know what's going on.
2006-06-29 10:36:06 · answer #7 · answered by gentle giant 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋