I had a bestfriend who is a guy, way back when I was in school. when I started dating my ex husband my boyfriend hit my bestfriend. leaving my bestfriend not talking to me. this was like ten years ago. THe guy that was my bestfriend still refuses to talk to me to this day. He was a very important part of my life and want his freindship back. what do I do to get him to talk to me? I tried to just let it go but can't. serious answers only please.
2006-06-29 10:27:28 · 11 answers · asked by Cynthia G 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I divorced my husband that caused the problem. Freind and I were freinds since like eightth grade.
2006-06-29 10:31:11 · update #1
If you know his address or even email address write him a letter and explain the situation of your getting a divorce, how much you have missed having him a part of your life, that you really want him in your life again and that you really want to talk about what happened..... then leave the ball in his court and tell him if he wants to talk about it - or even just leave it in the past and build a newer friendship how to contact you.... then wait and pray
2006-06-29 10:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by Bugs_Mom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately, when you get married, you end up losing those valuable guy friends. The only way I have been able to keep mine are on the side when my spouse does not know. Just call him or send him an ecard, or try and make time to go see him to apologize. If he was a true good friend, he will know it was not you, but your he-man of a hubby acting like a caveman. :) Sounds like you have one like me.
2006-06-29 17:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by msjinx39 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you are going to resolve this is by communicating with him, and asking his forgiveness.
You should start by sending him a card, tell him you miss him even after all this time. Then follow up the card with a phone call and tell him you are sorry about what happened, and that you were wrong (even if you weren't).
2006-06-29 17:30:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to confront him. take him to quiet place and just talk things over or call him. do not take no for an answer. make him hear you out. he shouldn't still be holding a grudge after ten years and especially letting your friendship go to hell over something like this. good luck
2006-06-29 17:32:03 · answer #4 · answered by kevman0713 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask you friend to forgive your boyfriend and you for everything. Tell him you are really truly sorry and that all you want is for things to be like it used to be you wanna be friends.
2006-06-29 17:33:52 · answer #5 · answered by jas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him a letter. Apologize, explain how you feel and try to work it out. All you can do is try.
A personal ad he will read might be cool too.
2006-06-29 17:32:30 · answer #6 · answered by poor and in debt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well for whatever reason he is holding a grudge it is his decision and you should respect that especialy considering what happened. leave the past in the past and leave him alone, if he ever wanted to forgive you he would have.
2006-06-29 17:31:08 · answer #7 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can get him to listen to you tell him how you feel. I don't understand why he's mad at you your not the one who hit him.Give it your best shot.You won't know until you do.
2006-06-29 17:35:02 · answer #8 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you still married?
2006-06-29 17:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by JV 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you stick up for your best friend( in his presence)?
2006-06-29 17:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by silverironrain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋