Lately I have begun masturbating and white stuff has begun to come out is this sperm I'm 14?

Answer 1

Yes. Don't worry you are turning into a man and likly to do it nightly untill you have a girlfriend.

Thump anyone who telling you its a sin, will make you blind, or give you hairy palms... you ever seen one?

You WILL develop an interest in porn as a boy it goes with the equipment... Enjoy...Along with the rest of the male population.

The girls are just as bad as you only they think of boy band members who are like porn stars for girls. Being more touch based they also like things that vibrate.

You are normal, you aint bad, practice, see if you can bulseye a target.

Porn wise learn that what you see aint how you do it with a real girl... See things like Porn Week on Bravo TV which guys and girls holiday on a real set and meet the stars and chat to them.

So you can see how its made. And learn things like the stars often have real boy or girl friends or are married and make love in different ways...


ie more foreplay (feeling up), kissing, hugging and the major difference is porn stars are as far apart as possible. This is to make room for the camera, lighting crew, boomb mic sound guy, the director, the continuity person, to avoid shadows and capture it all.

When you do it with a girl you will want to be as close as possible. Get the idea.? This way you also learn to see them as real people.

You may want to check out this place for fantasy material.

www.fkk-oase.de (pick the english option and yes the place is real).

70s porn is better (ie the woemn didn't have lots of makeup and had unenhanced breasts), the film production values were high and things were nice and had a sense of humour.

The reason why Im suggesting this , is it will be healthier for you then you seeing the more mechanical stuff around today and thinking that is real life.

Also recomended are the Lovers Guides videos (educational videos for couples) they are realistic and legit teaching guided for couples (could be useful for your first time in a few years so you can make it a good first time for the girl knowing what to do. Also should help you get her comming back for more.

or 'nicer' stuff is here

http://www.zenra-movie-annex.com/

As said the reason for this is Im realistic not nieve. Will will get interested and what I am directing you too will be better then what you are likley to come accross yourself.

Leave the real sex for high school. When you meet a girl go slow. work your way upto the advanced stuff in high school and college.. run too fast you miss out on great things.

and here is the other stuff you need to know for your first times... not you dont have to have sex with someone to get them pregnant

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Right assuming you two are of similar age... how old is he if not.

Biologically most start to get sexual between 16 and 18 if thats what you are getting at. Howeever if in the US this may be a problem dur to silly laws that ignore human nature... Most successful countries have ages of concent around 16 and some have staggered systems (ie maximum age for the older one).

If you want to go further sexually sex ed 101.

Ie first time, pre first period you may be on it, standing up and all crap like that

ANY way a single cell and there are millions in a drop gets in or near your fanny can get you pregnant...

This means it swims so a drop on the outside nearby when the area is wet could swim, certainly if on the outside (or say squrted on butt and drippled down, in your underwear or like in porn movies shot over the outside CAN get uyou pregnant.

Likewise anything on fingers say he rubs his willy or you do then rub or finger inside your bits, or when taking off the condom it gets on you fingers... then in or on you...

ALSO can get you pregnant... Likewise STDs

Whilst you cannot get pregnant via kissing or blow jobs you can get STDs from blow jobs. Sexually Transmitted Deseases.


Also anything oil based ie chocoalte or vasaline or icecream getting on condom rubber acts like acid making tiny holes. 30 secs for virus, 60 anything else you cant see. Polyurathne one sie Durex Avanti condoms are immune to this as not rubber and also suitable for those allergic to latex...

This means no going further unless you are on the pill... Better still on a patch or injection or something you can't forget or take late say if you selpt in or it does not work.

Likewise some medicines or drugs may stop it working...


So pill for you AND condoms AND practice with them as not so easy.(can can be torn if you leave air in the teet or sharp rings etc and if he flops a little can come off occasionally,.

So two forms of contraception at least.


Also do a practice dry run on getting morning after pills if anything goes wrong so you know where to get them and how in several places including ones that don't tell parents.

Then practice with the condoms... this means in the dark, get them out of pockets from clothes thrown on the floor, out of the packet and only (in your case fake willy from adult joke shop or suitable vegetable...very quickly... Take to long he will flop.


Plus he should be practicing by tossing off with them (thinking of you hopefully as opposed to porn stars... if you aint comfortable with that idea you are not ready to do it.), then comming. Then practicing getting it off with the deposit inside with no splashes, trying it up and safe remember in the dark? out of the wallet etc.

Maybe this is something you could do together when you are on the pill. And he wash in the shower... you could peek.

Then and only then should you start to go further plus getting STD tests and even if you are virgins this is valid. As you can catch AiDS from doing 1st AID on someone.


Then you may be readdy...


Sound like lots of work? well thats what being grown up enough to do it means...

You ignore any suggestions on birth control form the church as they are all liers...go to family planning clinics that aint church based.



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OK that done... Should shouldn't have sex just like a totally preplanned thing... you should be used to first, second, third base with lots of feeling, kissing, stroking, kissing bits and licking them etc before you go all the way and having seen each other naked before.


That way you wont be all stressed and tense and pressured as will be having fun only this time taking it further.

In the UK the age on consent is 16 and if you were used to stuff like that.

Also you dont have to go all the way... there are always blowjobs that guys love especailly when done right, hand jobs on each other, boob jobs with him between your boobs... etc


All a lot safer and lots of fun for couples too. The boob job thing is the safest. And if all that is stuff you both like then sex should be ok...


But think through it carefully...

Can't see him dumping you especailly if you have been going together for 9 months.

But do it for the right reasons... Forget marriage and the divorce rate.


Whats more important is all the safety stuff and if you are readdy and the prep stuff.

When its right for you it should be great and affectionate and fun... Do note its unlikly that he will last long you you will probably have to finger yourself (or get him to do it and play teacher and student) or him lick you out till you *** too.

And if you got grossed out by that stuff I mentioned you are too young and not ready

Hope that helps...



Then ok if you want to go further and have got and following all the above stuff...

YOU ARE GOING TO HAVE SEX, most folk between 16 and 18. MAKe sure its a great first time.

Girls will be able to control you and you will be facinated in female breasts.

They will use this to control you...

Now is the time to get lots of condoms and practice usuing them as they are harder then you think to use.

Practice in the dark with them in your wallet, in your trousers pocket, drop the trousers/jeans at random in the room, get a stiffie (ie porn. Then practice finding trousers fast, getting your wallet out, the condom on the wallet expelling their air and on to you dick before you drop.


Think like soldiers stipping a rifel in 30 secs... try this and you will work out why Im telling you to do this. Do the tossing off, come, then practice getting it off pos in the dark tied up and in a bin...

Then see how muuch seimin is on your fingers, on your willy and on the bed...

Any drop or splash of that could get a futhre girlfriend pregnant and that includes whats on your fingers, so pracrtice nipping in the bathroom to clean up and back out fast to waiting girlfriend.


Also notice how a little seimen comes out early to lubricate things...

That can just as easily get a girl pregnant hence you NEVER put it in or near a girl (ie dont think you can pull out before you come) or you WILL get a girl pregnant.



And to anyone thinking thats freaked... Im trying to be the advising older brother to the kid... as in the man to man chat. Nothing more then that.

Kid never meet anyone here.

Answer 2

Actually it's semen.. Sperm , the little swimmers are microscopic, and at this point there may be few of them. I heartily suggest to you keep up the practice, at least three times each day, it's really great practice. You might round up a few friends and stand in a circle and practice together, see who is most prolific !

Answer 3

My white stuff started at 11...late developer?

Answer 4

yes dear! but instead of asking us on the computer you should be talking to your mom or a older sister or someone you trust. this is something you should not ask just anyone. has anyone told you about the bird and the bees? (sex) if not someone needs to.

Answer 5

If your a girl, no its discharge, if your a guy, yes it is sperm.

Answer 6

White stuff??? Dude that is not normal, consult your Doctor

Answer 7

yes

Answer 8

If you're a lad then yes it sounds like semen.

If you're a lass then it's unlikely.

Answer 9

yes

Answer 10

GO AS AT SCARLETEEN.COM OR ORG THEYLL BE ABLE TO UNDERSTANDING AND ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS, PLUS THATS IS A SIN AND U ARE TOO YOUNG GO PLAY VIDEO GAMES

Answer 11

no, it's crying because it's trying to tell you that you have been strangling it, and it was almost dieing.

leave the poor bugger alone or you will go blind and it will drop off ( well that's what my dad used to tell me ).