how to develop self confidence and stay happy?

Question

whenever i do any kind of work and talk i cant express my words .i feel like others will make fun of me if i say something .
thats why i always failed to do what i want. and cant make a correct decision and as a result i stay sad and un happy.

Answer 1

be urself....dont take notice of other's whatever they r saying or beleiving about u...actually as far as i have understand u r very concious about what others r thinking about u...always think u r the best ....cuz if u wont respect ur self then beleive me no one is gonna respect u

Answer 2

First of all I want to tell you what confidence is
................ Cofidence means to have a firm believe in ourself that whatever we are doing it is true and best.


There are many ideas to develop Confidence but they are little bit demanding


1. As far as expressing yourself is concerned ................ Stand in front of mirror see directly in your eyes and try to express your ideas this will give a +ve boost to urself.


2. Think while delivering your ideathat you are the most educated and intelligent person in the group and whatever you are speaking is the best the group can have. And you will feel confidence


3. Before taking a decision observe all the -ve and +ve aspects and be ready whenever asked to justify ur decision and you will find that everybody respect ur idea and you will get a confidence dose. We lack in confidence only when we cant justify ourself and our act.

.................So ate every moment try to justify urself and gather points in favour of ur Acts. But they should be +ve and true tour heart



There is another idea which i use myself may be it is not that much effective whenever you feel lack of confidence go to top most point. Look the sky and spread ur hands as much as you can and see whole sky is in your hands and you are the greatest and this will encurage you


......................Be happy ..........every day...... hour .............. minute ....................... every moment . b'coz once it is gone you will never get it back


And remember..........................................
.....................Do everything with 100% of urself .................... and never ever feel shame of whatever you do......... b'coz you are the rightest person on the earth ............................ and wahtever you do is the best for the earth

Answer 3

Try taking a deep look inside yourself. See what you find and you might be surprised. You will see all of your positive traits (especially if you actually write at least ten down). I myself have done this and has found it has helped. Taking time to just consider yourself in a positive light. And tell yourself how awesome you are, soon enough that will show. Just let your inner light shine through, because, trust me, it's there. Trust yourself and know that the words you speak are expressions of you. Don't b afraid to show that person. And if someone does put down what you say, that person has no right to disrespect you. That person needs to learn and adjust their views, not you. Don't be afraid, though. I know from pesonal experience that living in fear gets you absolutely nowhere.

Answer 4

honey all you have too do is believe in your confidence and build up your level of happiness; if ur happy talking just start talking; happy listening then listen; whatever makes you happy then just be happy. with your speech slow down find ur words and then speak. if you feel like you are making bad decisions then stop, think and act, there will always be times when you make a bad decision but you have to remember to be responsible for it. So just find your level of happiness, confidence and speech and do the damn thang!

Answer 5

Remember there are many others who are worse off than you.
People are going to judge you and EVERYONE else every day of your lives.That major fact is what we must overcome in order to know and stand for what we are. I too have experienced this. So I say to you love you Blah Blah Blah and ignore those judgments you fear so much because if u don't they still will be there.

Answer 6

You lack confidence in yourself! Stop analysing yourself and thinking about what you are doing and saying and just be yourself! Be positive! Relax and ENJOY life,and don`t sweat the small stuff!You are an o.k person! Tell yourself that everyday!! DON`T WORRY!! BE HAPPY!!

Answer 7

YOU SIMPLY SAY TO YOURSELF SCREW THEM !!!

If I have to explain it 2 or 3 times who cares, they have the problem !!!

Answer 8

Talk,talk,TALK! If you keep talking you'll get it right.People that don't want to listen are not your friends.