what would you do if you got into a big argument with your sister?

Question

I HAVE BEEN BABYSITTING MY NEICE FOR A LONG TIME NOW AND I TOLD MY SISTER THAT I WANT TO HAVE TIME FOR MYSELF TO GO OUT AND HAVE FUN,SHE GOT MAD AND TOOK IT AS "I DON'T LOVE MY NEICE AND I DON'T THINK OF HER AS FAMILY"SHE WON'T TALK TO ME NOW AND WON'T LET ME SEE MY NEICE...WHAT SHOULD I DO?

Answer 1

Tell her she is selfish for expecting you to have no life and to constantly watch your niece. Tell her you love your niece, you just don't want the responsibility of constantly caring for her. Good luck.

Answer 2

First of all, you need to tell your sister that the bond between you and family will never be broken by hanging out with other people. Second of all, you need to approach your sister when she is more tranquil and less stubborn about your side.
Third of all, you need to understand your sister's point of view (as hard as it may seem) so that you can have answers to what she might say.
Fourth, remind her that everyone needs a little "me" time, it might have been the reason your sister told you to babysit her daughter in the first place.
..start out with that and you'll be good to go!
~Mimi :)

Answer 3

TEll her what you ment. If she wont listen, just give it time, it will work itself out. Plus, eventually your neice will giver a giult trip about wanting to see you, so you will see your neice soon.

Answer 4

u should tell ur sister that u were just telling her that u need some space not u don't love ur niece u love ur niece but u need time to hand out wit ur friends

Answer 5

I'd say to give her time to calm down. You didn't say you wouldn't babysit at all, did you?

Answer 6

tell her to grow up and take responsibilities for her own child, and not expect u to give up your life for her.

Answer 7

i would slap / kick / punch and run away

Answer 8

try and make up with her