I'm 14, and I've read a lot of these questions asked by girls my age and younger. They're all asking "should I have sex" and "I'm pregnanat, what do I do?" I can't help thinking that our society is seriously screwed up when being a virgin is a bad thing! Anyone else out there who is proud of their virginity? I need to know that not everyone is falling into our culture's misleading deceptiveness.
2006-06-29 09:46:57 · 14 answers · asked by just me 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
To CVY2000: You're right. I hadn't thought of it like that, and I changed my name. Thanks!
2006-06-29 10:08:18 · update #1
I definetly do. I'm a virgin. And yes, I may only be 14 but I know that I'm going to be a virgin until I'm married. And I'm proud of that. There are girls who are being destroyed by our culture and it's horible. And especially the vicious cycle that most children of teen parents become teen parents, leading to more impovrieshed underpriviliged children, more kids in the system that already can't handle who's there now and more kids going to juvenile detention, which is pretty much the best path to jail. Our culture is so much about instant gratification. No one thinks about the consequences of what they do anymore.
2006-06-29 11:31:45 · answer #1 · answered by millancad 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Remember one of most impressionable age, people who submit questions always do not have themselves in the situation depicted by their question. While there are exceptions to every rule I think that virginity can be ridiculed by anyone but have you ever known anyone to ridicule it and still be a virgin? Wonder why that is. Virginity is something you only have once and that gives it value. Do not worry what other ask, take their questions with a grain of salt, meaning not every question is valid and every question is not the person immediately in that set of circumstances. Do not let the questions deter you from your beliefs or waiver you from what you know to be pure and true. There is as much untruth in the questions or more than there is accuracy. I try to help all the questions that seem real or need an answer that will help them provided I feel giving advise based on experience, but even so I am selective in some as there are some that I do not answer because they are a waste of time there is no chance of what they are asking being for real. Keep that in mind and become so involved in the drama that is presented that it affects yur normal rational thinking. Please help when you can just do not take on the drama and be proud of what and who you are.
2006-06-29 09:56:49 · answer #2 · answered by andyman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I reamained a virgin until I was 24. I got married to that man at 28. I'm now married to the first man I had sex with and we now have a little baby girl.
I am very proud of my decision not to have sex while I was a mere child myself. I honestly don't know what I would have done if I had a baby at that age and sex can bring a baby into this world at that age.
Even at 30 having a child is difficult. All the emotional and body changes that happen -along with the responsibility that comes along with a baby is a very difficult job. VERY REWARDING but difficult.
So basically it is very honorable to remain a virgin until the prospect of marriage comes along....if you can wait for the actual wedding night. It's a smart decision.
2006-06-29 10:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by momoftwo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with you. I don't think anyone at the age of 14 should even be thinking about having sex. Enjoy being young while you can, because once you are an adult, that is it. I think anyone that needs to come online and ask if they should have sex, obviously isn't mature enough to. I am going to sound old, but when I was 14, sex wasn't even closed to being on my mind. Stay young and stay a virgin. There are people out there, like me, who are proud of you!
2006-06-29 09:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow! i was just telling my cousin that! i just wish i could get into all these girls minds in this world and say what are you doing? to me my virginity is very special i will not loose it until the time comes to my honeymoon!! no matter how much i deeply love a guy i wouldnt its a pomise im making to myself {plus my family would kill me LOL} The worst part is i was watching tv you know the new tyra banks show and well it was about sex and there was this hispanic girl who had sex 27 time i think she was 17 just to make herself feel pretty and she said she was kinda chubby so she put a towel over her stomach everytime she did it and i was like you dont need to give yourself away like that to men just to feel pretty! and she was scared to have a BF because when she had one he broke her heart! talk about low self-esteem! its not her fault but she shouldnt have made those bad decisions! if i were her no matter how many guys broke my heart i would get back out there and try to see wich guy i would spend most of my life with! so that is what i think! and i totally AGREE with you!!
2006-07-02 14:41:42 · answer #5 · answered by Found love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i definetly think all those kids under , say 18, that are talking about having sex and being pregnant are SCREWED OVER
nothing good can happen from having sex that young...i'm 15 and i know that i'm gonna wait until i'm AT LEAST 18 so that hopefully there will be no reprocussions...
who has any common sense when they're 13? really?!
2006-06-29 10:37:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. many of the questions that i see are appalling to me. it might be a little old fationed, but in my opinion, you should not even date untell you are 16, and then only do double or group dates. do not steady date. dont let dating take over your life. when you hit about 21, start looking for a mate. dont have sex untell after marrage. thats my veiws on dating and sex.
2006-06-29 09:54:10 · answer #7 · answered by LOOPYLUNG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right the world is screwed up place.
not to get on your case, but what kind of thoughts do ou think go through some of these sick minds out there when they see a question in the preteen/teen section by a DARKANGEL?
Hmm, is she dark skin colored?
or maybe she has been darkened by her mystievous ways?
jus a thought
2006-06-29 09:53:07 · answer #8 · answered by cvy2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gay marriage will have to be a correct for homosexual individuals all over the place the arena. You can't examine homosexual marriage to marrying a youngster that is disgusting. Why do cons arise with probably the most bullsh*t ever. Holland makes it possible for identical intercourse marriage, have they legalized marrying kids too? NO, they have not.
2016-08-30 06:50:08 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some of them are. It's best not to tell them that, just try to set them on the right track or they won't listen to you. The media is setting bad examples. Let's make a good name for Yahoo! Answers.
2006-06-29 09:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋