why do people argue with you and then when u try and defend yourself they tell u to calm down?

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why do people argue with you and then when u try and defend yourself they tell u to calm down?

2006-06-29 09:44:23 · 3 answers · asked by teresa d 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships

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it's their own self defense. however, if you keep the arguement rational then you're fine. shouting should not be involved. there is a difference between being assertive and agressive. Obviously being assertive will help more than being agressive.

2006-06-29 09:49:45 · answer #1 · answered by Dave69CA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋

maybe you raise your voice or your body language is sending the message that your upset

2006-06-29 09:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by shae 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋

i don;t know but i think it they false and they are try to blame you for it and when see you mad they don;t want to pull you to much

2006-06-29 09:51:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋