I'm 13 and i've never had a boyfriend but i want one. What should i do?
2006-06-29 09:42:07 · 24 answers · asked by hawkins_rea 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Don't rush into anything...its not that big a deal that you don't have a boyfriend yet because it doesn't really strart to become serious until you hit high school...plus boys are only trouble...just wait on God and when He's ready for you to have a boyfriend you will have one!
2006-06-29 09:45:01 · answer #1 · answered by LoMo2008 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want a boyfriend then that is entirely your decision, and I dont think you should be forced into thinking "oh i'm too young". 13 is a number, not a description on your personality or maturity. I think people seem to forget that not everyone is the same and you cant just generalize.
If you want a boyfriend, then ask your friends if they know anyone thats single? Go to places with your friends - shopping, bowling, movies? Somewhere that there will be a lot of people your own age, and get talking. Be confident, all they can do is say "no i'm with someone", or "thanks, but no thanks". Thats their loss, and you move on!
2006-06-29 16:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by afterbirth07 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about getting a boyfriend. I'm not saying you are too young because you're not. You are thirteen and old enough for a boyfriend. You should just stay involved in school and activities and friends - thats a way to meet people, through friends, school, and activities. But don't think about meeting someone. If you seem to desperate no one will want to be your boyfriend.
2006-06-29 16:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Bookgal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding? I mean having a boyfriend can be nice, but how many relationships last if you are about 13? I mean, when you get one, you will regret when he tells you he likes another girl or something. Boys are not like girls, they change to fast and when that happens you get you heart ripped to pieces. Maybe wait fo a while like when you get to high school, for now, stick to friends!
2006-06-29 16:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by pinknblack_94 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 13. you dont need one. and at 13 they wont really be a boyfriend. more of a guy friend that is like a best friend. and let love find you. dont be desperate and give every guy a chance.
2006-06-29 18:24:16 · answer #5 · answered by X0_JUSTxF0RxFUN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got my first bf when i was 13 but i was just like u b4 i turned 13. sometimes if u dont think about wanting a bf you will get 1 out of nowhere! u dont want them to think that your desperate or anything, so play it cool. i got my first bf on my birthday isnt that weird?!
2006-06-29 17:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by knwhaley03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go and make friends .. Talk to boys . Talk about any subjects. They also want to have girlfriends. Don't be shy. Do not jump into sex. It is a dangerous field. But you can have friends as a start.
2006-06-29 16:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by yipeeyahyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl..My teacher didn't get her first TAP KISS til' the age of sixteen! Your not late and don't rush into things. It'll feel better if you take your time.Trust me!
2006-06-29 17:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by Ms.Help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, Are you allow to have a Boyfriend? If your not than don't rush into it. If you are just make sure he respects you.
2006-06-29 16:49:38 · answer #9 · answered by Angel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how about barbie dolls ?
a boy in your age bracket will not know what to do with you.
a guy older who does know what to do with you might get arrested if he tries.
hold off a few years
2006-06-29 16:55:38 · answer #10 · answered by cvy2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋