If you fell in love with a person and you knew the person could not stay because of paperwork (visas) would you give your job up to find a new job so that you could live closer to your love?
Would you choose your job and a few good friends or that one person that is different than anyone you have ever met and eventually you could see yourself with this person in your future?
2006-06-29 09:28:57 · 12 answers · asked by exitdc 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and we both feel the same way.
2006-06-29 10:40:50 · update #1
what? would i move for the person that i loved? what kinda stupid *** question is this? if you love this person, truly love this person, you would do anything to be with him...you obviously do not love him if you have to think about it...
2006-06-29 09:32:47 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if that's the wisest move, but in your situation, you should see what other areas benifit your move. In other words, make sure your *ss is covered on a personal and proffesional level before you give a good chunk of your time to someone else.
Otherwise your no good to yourself, the one you love and you become a burden to that person and yourself. After that resentment steps in and either one or the both of you will start pointing faults as to why the relationship failed, should somethng happen.
Remember: If you move outside your element, be sure that you can adjust to a new and unkown environment with reletive ease.
Take care of you first, then it's easier to make moves.
2006-06-29 16:37:05 · answer #2 · answered by monkeymustard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would and I did, only I didn't have to move out of the country, just 200 miles away, trust me it's still feels like I'm out of the country, I know nothing, no one, and don't know how to get anywhere, but........ I'm learning, and it's totally worth it! That kinda person comes but once in a lifetime, If you're convinced that this is the real deal, and have gone through other relationships that you thought were the real deal and can now differentiate between the two. I say FOLLOW YOUR HEART you'll be OK. Good Luck.
2006-06-29 16:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by jusb4dawn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I truly felt love I would go for it, I would. Here's some advice.
What I would do first is look for jobs around that area, and see if they are in my field. If there is, check it out, If it is better, than go for it that's what I would do. Then fill out an application. If you get the job, quite the old, and go for new!
2006-06-29 16:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kris13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah why not as long as you like where you will be going. I moved to Arizona for a guy once. We were going to get married but it did not work out. But not out of the country. You will have to talk about committment before hand.
2006-06-29 16:32:46 · answer #5 · answered by tmb867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I've actually been considering it, because right now I'm in a long distance relationship. If you can have a good life where they are? You love them? Why not... just go for it.
2006-06-29 16:33:05 · answer #6 · answered by Andi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would...if you can see yourself marry that person, do it. if not, it's a waste of time...and whatever you gave up for him/her.
does the person feel the same about you? that would be another thing I'd consider before moving.
2006-06-29 16:35:43 · answer #7 · answered by sarea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart. okay if your body feels like something you never felt before, butterflies,can't think straight, nervous, dreams,heart flutters, and so forth. Man, you found IT!
You Found It!
2006-06-29 16:35:44 · answer #8 · answered by thefemalerule 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I would.
2006-06-29 16:39:14 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i think so
2006-06-29 16:31:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋