how would you feel if a ex partner from 7 year relationship said -
the sex was always shite? (rubbish)
i thought it was good we did everything every position every naughty thing you name it we did it?
however due to drugs and drink i did have some erection problems but she still slept with me even twice when we split, why would she say this 4 mth after the last time we had sex? just in a general conversation were is siad i still found her attractive and i would love to sleep with her again?
i do still love her, and really do find her immensly attractive?
2006-06-29 09:28:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
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2006-06-29 09:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by chrisgreig83 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she said the $3X was alwayz shite u did it in a wrong way am not talkin about experienced or stuff but i think u made her tired a gurl can sleep and being ****ed 29 times from every possible hole but the matter is how she enjoyed it i think she didn't , if u still love her Y don't u talk to her about it?
2006-06-29 09:39:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I would feel pretty shitty about it. But, you could always offer to prove her wrong and then work it like you never have before. Don't do the things that you want to do to her, do the things that she wants you to do to her. If you don't know the difference then there really is a problem. But, hell, you should still offer to give her the best she'll ever have.
2006-06-29 09:32:20 · answer #3 · answered by Phaylynn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she should have something upset with you so tried to say something to hurt you.if the sex between you and her is rubbish,why did she still sleep with you when you split?
does she hate you having the drinks and drugs?or something else u do not notice which makes her upset?i don't know and you should pay attention to her if u still want to be with her again.
good luck!!!
2006-06-29 16:18:32 · answer #4 · answered by Ice_ice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you hurt her and she wants you to feel the same embaressing pain. She wants you to feel rejected so you stop asking her for sex and ask her back out. Or just to leave her alone cus she doesnt want you in her life like that anymore.
2006-06-29 09:32:11 · answer #5 · answered by Wicked Top. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just trying to take a stab at ya and hurt your feelings. If she has been coming back for it that many times (7 years worth) you must not be that bad.
2006-06-29 09:36:39 · answer #6 · answered by tmb867 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I THINK WHAT SHE SAID MIGHT HAVE BEEN HARSH BUT I MUST SAY FROM A WOMAN WHO KNOWS THAT EXACT SITUATION THE DRINK AND DRUGS MIGHT HAVE BEEN THE PROB.
BUT EVEN THOUGH YOU STILL LOVE HER AND ALL, HER HARSH STATEMENT MAY BE HER WAY OF SAYING MOVE ON
2006-06-29 09:45:33 · answer #7 · answered by freakysweettea 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because she wants to hurt you where it counts. Maybe you were too self absorbed to really take care of her needs. Good luck.
2006-06-29 09:32:02 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i don't think she loves you anymore. if someone says that to you it is usually to hurt your feelings and make you feel bad about yourself. you need to get off the drugs and alcohol and find another woman.
2006-06-29 09:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by tiffany228 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she is trying to hurt you for some reason. She knows this would hurt your feelings.
2006-06-29 09:32:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's cuz yer hung like a fly.
2006-06-29 09:39:35 · answer #11 · answered by neverbathe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋