I have been crying for an hour as i started my period today..Me and my husband are trying for a baby..this time i thought i am pregnant but today i saw the blood discharge..and since then i have been crying thinking that even this monthe there is no conception...How to console myself..
2006-06-29 08:45:26 · 5 answers · asked by Pia 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
we have been trying since last 3 months...this is 4th month.
2006-06-29 08:56:46 · update #1
I know that there is some truth to the adage, "You are thinking about it too hard." Plan some fun activities in the next cycle. Do a lot of hiking, camping, water sliding, any of the kind of activities where you can have lots of fun together. Find something that takes your mind off getting pregnant and wanting that so bad. Sometimes when our minds are occupied nature kicks in and does for us what we were forcing it to do all along.
While, yes there is no conception this month, and that means there is no baby in February, you have that opportunity again. Get a First Response Ovulation Kit, they are really good. But don't make love for the end result to conceive, have fun, get 'jiggy' with it. Love your spouse and don't let him view this as a chore. Neither should you. It will happen. Looking forward to hearing that you are with child!!
2006-06-29 09:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by The Y!ABut 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you're going through! I get 'depressed' (and cry) every month that I'm not pregnant! My husband & I have been trying to conceive for over a year and still no luck! I just have to tell myself that it will happen when it's supposed to happen! And I also tell myself that "I still have next month!" And the practice is good too...LOL!! But, I still get depressed a little bit every month! The only cure would be for me to get pregnant and have a baby! Good luck with everything...
2006-06-29 17:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by krazy_gal04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is really sad, how long have you been trying to have a child. if u don't mind me asking what form of birth control were you using prior to deciding you were ready to have a child sometimes with birth controls like the shot it could take 18 months after the shot wears off for a woman to become pregnant so for some woman it could be 21 months before they are able to concieve. i am not sure about other methods of birth control and how long it could take.
i would say though you probably deserve a good cry and the rest of the day in bed vegging out. if you need to talk more just email me. sorry things will all work out though just keep trying.
2006-06-29 15:55:21 · answer #3 · answered by princessmuffie85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just realize that you are not alone....only a small percentage of women get pregnant right away, most have to try for a few months, sometimes up to a year before conceiving.....Just think, next month you will get to try again....and dont worry too much about it, because the more you stress over trying to get pregnant, the harder it is going to be to actually do it!! Good Luck!!
2006-06-29 15:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It took us 9 months to conceive our now 4-mo-old son. I went through the same thing you are - I would cry every time my period started. However, now that I have my son, everytime I look at him I can't imagine my life without him.
He wouldn't be here had we been successful one of those previous months.
2006-06-29 15:51:19 · answer #5 · answered by LoveMy2J's 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋