Is it Okay to imagine youre with someone else when making love to your spouse?

Question

Sometimes I close my eyes and imagine its someone else, a celebrity, a coworker, an old boyfriend etc. Is that a sign that I might stray later in our marriage?

Answer 1

personaly, i never have.i dont thank my wife has ...and even if she did she wouldent tell me.lol, but honstly this is a question that only you can answer. look inside yourself, if you thank you could cheet than you probly will, if not then you need to ask yourself why your having these thoughts and go from there.

Answer 2

That is entirely normal to think of someone else while making love. This could be a sign that your relationship is getting boring and you need to spice things up a bit. It does not mean that you will stray away from your marriage it just means that you need something different every once in a while. Just keep these thoughts to yourself because they may lead to trust issues between you and your partner. Just talk to your partner and see what he/she thinks about changing things around in your sex life.

Answer 3

It is ok to have fantasies while making love we all do. It is not a sign that you will " stray " later on. We all have our secrets , it doesn't mean we will act on them. It is possible that fantasies lead to a better sex life

Answer 4

Probaly...I use to do the same thing and now I a strayed and I am getting a divorce

Answer 5

No, not really alot of people fantasize but as long as it's not everytme your with your spouse. Then there might be a problem

Answer 6

i think it is normal to do so but not all the time, you would know if you are still attracted and in love with your spouse.

Answer 7

Of course it's OK - everybody does sometime or other.
Don't admit it with your partner, though - that would be suicidal.

Answer 8

No- you will end up straying

Answer 9

Nope ..normal

Answer 10

yes