If two people who God himself united got divorced, then would that be wrong??

Question

What if neither the man nor the woman did anything wrong to one another? What if they had to marry bcuz of situations?

Answer 1

Every marriage is united by God...it's the whole purpose. If it weren't for God mentioning it in the bible, then we wouldn't know it existed. According to the bible, God hates divorce. So, my answer is: Yes, it would be wrong. When you marry, you make a promise to God "For better or for worse". That is, unless your spouse has cheated, you are bound to your partner.

Answer 2

Yes it is wrong if God himself united them and they stood before God and Man at the alter they vowed to be with each other through thick and thin. Whatever the problem was they should have worked it out. And first of all they shouldn't have married if it was because of situations they should have married because of love. If they have gotten a divorce they shouldn't get married again.

Answer 3

This depends. Why do they want to get divorced, and even better, why did they get married? God is love, and although you can grow to love someone after a while, just sometimes people clash, different personalities, different upbringing, different morals, and of course, different religions. This could cause them to get divorced. Now this is just my opinion, but I would rather be single and lonely, than married and miserable. Many people try to stay in a marriage because of the children. But sometimes that's the wrong thing to do because the children are witnessing all these fights and arguments. Also, many of times the children tend to blame themselves because of the parents getting a divorce, which is also wrong. Although it's hard to find God's Will in things....especially these days, it's also hard to find out what he would want us to do in specific situations, with the vast array of religions out there. Every religion considers themselves "the true religion" so the normal person actually has no idea of who or where to turn to. These are just normal things in which we have to think, pray, and try to follow our gut feelings, our intuition, to see if we're in the middle of God's Will or not. I hope I've helped you with this.....best of luck to you.

Answer 4

Marriage is something that should not be taken lightly, its something you should think about very carefully beore going into. Its not a solution to a problem or situation. However sometimes a divorce is necessary it happened during bible times. Jesus mentioned adultery as a reason to get divorce or separated. However there are times when divorce is necessary like in an abusive relationship. But its not a quick fix that some people think it is.

Answer 5

God only allows divorce when the husband won't provide for they family, or a mate is abusive, or one had an affair. But you should only get married if you love each other, because if you get divorced just because you can't get along anymore, or something like that, it is wrong in God's eyes. But there are some situations that you can't help.

Answer 6

I'm not quite understand the question.
I had to marry my husband because of the situation we were in...but we loved each other. If there were no such situation we would be just living together. But God united us. I'm glad. And neither of us Can imagine our life not being married.
It happened may be a month after a wedding (we didn't have a honey-moon, we were lack of money) we realized that we are happy that we are married.
But What was your question???

Answer 7

If your marrying because of a situation, I will refuse to say their
united under God. Every marriage isn't united by God you know why? People marry for money, pregnancies, getting old, wanting children which really has nothing to do with truly wanting
to be with the such person for the rest of their lives.

If I met a man and I thought it was love and he is thinking marry for my money, I wouldn't consider that united by God.

Answer 8

The only reason to marry is Love! Period no questions. If a divorce becomes necessary for any reason then so be it! Sometimes it happens. It doesn't make you bad people and it is not wrong. Sometimes religion gets carried away in ancient rituals that are no longer valid in the modern world.

Answer 9

If one had to marry becos of "situations" then they must have known that the divorce was around the corner. I think God would prefer one to be single than for one to get married and then divorce thus messing up the lives of those innocent young ones.

Answer 10

Situations...such as? Pregnancy? Parents planned the marriage? I personally feel you should NEVER get married for any other reason than loving each other with all your hearts and wanting to spend the rest of your lives together faithfully!

As for God, he may bless a marriage but he doesn't make us get married just as he doesn't make us get divorced. We make our own decisions in life.

Answer 11

Two people can divorce on the grounds that one partner is unfaithful. In that case, the spouse who divorces can marry another person. Otherwise, no remarriage, from a Biblical point of view, is permitted.