Details please, then maybe we can help you out here.
2006-06-29 08:16:51
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answer #1
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answered by beezebee25 3
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Because you let her. I adore my wife and remind her of how much I cherish her every day. Relationships fall apart because either something is missing or they shouldn't have started in the first place. If you fail to satisfy needs then you have set things up for a disaster.
First you have to meet her physiological needs: food, shelter, clothing. Then you have to make her feel secure. She needs to know that you will protect her from the world and that you would never harm her as well. Third, you have to establish esteem in your spouse as well as yourself. Compliment her; help her improve without being critical; adore her. Finally, you have to develop the mutual mind set that you are no longer individuals but a new entity with a life all its own.
Most men are not up to the task so don't feel bad about your downfall. Learn from it. Plan ahead as to what you will do different the next time. Then get back out there and try it over again with someone new. No need crying over spilled milk.
2006-06-29 15:28:25
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answered by theonequincy 2
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Maybe she just wasn't sure that she wanted marriage anymore. She probably was not as ready as she thought she woould be. Its better that it ended now rather than years later with kids and grand kids etc or even better because you two would be unhappy together living a lie.
2006-06-29 15:16:03
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answered by Anonymous
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sorry bout what you are going thru. but we couldnt begin to guess y she dumped you. there must have been something wrong. the possibilities are endless. you could try to talk to her. suggest counseling or a mediator to help you with whatever problems there might be. good luck and god bless you.
2006-06-29 15:16:56
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answered by â? `·.â? ·.ŽIÃ?pY AnN.·â? .·´â? 2
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Well first you have to ask yourself if you were having problems and what not. Second, deep inside you probably know why??? Third, you can't ask that question without posing more details.
2006-06-29 15:18:26
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answered by Pineapple 2
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When you can calmly do so, ask her. Accept it for whatever it is and go on. If there is some fault in yourself correct it to best of your ability. You can do no more.
2006-06-29 15:28:20
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answered by smeatball 1
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Get off the computer & ask her directly.... come on... grow a set.
2006-06-29 15:21:44
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answered by Hassan56 4
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i think she had a man on the side but you need to ask her how are we gonna know
2006-06-29 15:17:31
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answered by Mexicana♥lOve 2
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because you can't post questions in the right topic!
2006-06-29 15:15:46
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answered by Anonymous
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cause your on here asking stupid @$$ questions...how the hell are we suppose to know?...tell us the jist of it or your question is pointless
broc
2006-06-29 15:14:58
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answered by mr.broc 4
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Maybe she found someone else better.
2006-06-29 16:42:23
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answered by lillismonsterdan 1
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