2006-06-29 08:04:27 · 10 answers · asked by BeccaBoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Teasing can be a form of "mild" abuse (I don't think that is an oxymoron). If he doesn't stop I would suggest you and he get some counseling. Know that his teasing is not a symptom of anything you have done...it is a weakness in him.
2006-06-29 08:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by Brent 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
After seriously asking him to stop several times and even having a heartfelt conversation with him and still he continues, It is obvious he doesn't understand that you don't find it funny all the time. He must have grown up like that, thinking it is okay. I would suggest you let all the things that make you cry build up and wait till he does even a little bit of teasing. If he sees you break into tears make sure he knows its because of his teasing and it will have a profound effect on him.
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I'm pretty sure he is not going to understand unless you bring the situation to another level.
2006-06-29 19:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by leon_godless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his teasing makes you feel bad...then it is abuse. Sit down and talk with him & let him know how bad he is making you feel. Then go into counselling. If he won't go in with you, that's his choice. But when someone gets bombarded with teasing, there is emotional baggage that comes along with it. You must heal from this and try to deal with it somehow, whether you stay with him or not.
2006-06-29 09:06:21 · answer #3 · answered by auntcookie84 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to stop. If he continues to tease you, completely ignore it. When he realizes he can't get a rise out of you, that will take all the "fun" out of it. He'll know you're not going to waste any time listening to this.
2006-06-29 08:40:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you really feel about him teasing you. He may not be aware of how much it bothers you or that it is hurtful. Let him know that you don't appreciate it or deserve it and you want him to stop.
2006-06-29 08:11:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your husband that it bothers you and if he continues leave the room. But if it gets out of hand, then I suggest you consider relocating to somewhere else. No matter how harmless he thinks it is, it hurts ones self esteem in time.
2006-06-29 08:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Ladybug H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Teasing isn't abuse, but maybe he's verbally abusing you.
2006-06-29 08:07:30 · answer #7 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lay down the law... communicate and if he doesn't get the picture go visit you family for a bit. let him get the picture that you aren't playing and his actions have consequences
2006-06-29 08:08:45 · answer #8 · answered by nsxplus1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it to him if he hasn't listened to you when you said stop
2006-06-29 08:18:45 · answer #9 · answered by buzy_bee_21 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you don't like it, tell him to stop...if he doesn't stop, leave him
2006-06-29 08:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋