i heard that u shouldnt get a guy who's done it be4 but how do i no its the truth?
2006-06-29 07:55:25 · 17 answers · asked by i_luv_sk8rs 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
You shouldn't just walk around looking for someone to lose your virginity to (at least that's what I assume you mean by a "v card"). If you find someone special, and feel they are the one you want to lose it to, that's fine, just don't rush around looking to get rid of it like heavy luggage.
2006-06-29 08:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by CAUTION:Truth may hurt! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a ridiculous way to say it. Anyway, grow up first. Save it for marriage. At the very least save it for someone you truly love. It's something you can never ever get back, I promise. It isn't something to just throw away because you're horny. Put some real thought and feeling into it. Do your parents know you're thinking like this? Are you on birth control? I think you're jumping into things here. Are you ready for a baby? That's a risk. An even worse one is STD. Chances get greater everyday that you'll contract one. Play your video games and stop worrying about this.
2006-06-29 08:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by *~*~*~*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you ever regret anything in life it will be having sex before having it with someone who truly cares. Experienced or not it does not matter. Typcially men who are older don't care about that (I do not know your age and am not asking), as their level of maturity allows them to take intimacy for what it truly is. They will not make fun of you or poke at your self esteem. More youthful guys will take your virginity and post it on their wall as a trophy. And that is all you will be - another girl they did it with. Take your time, enjoy life for what it's worth. When you are ready - you'll know. If you find yourself in a position where you are about to do it and you are unsure - then don't do it. Never get with a guy who you have to dated exclusively for 1 month or longer. Trust me on this one, real guys wait.
2006-06-29 08:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by Jacob B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you plan to do something that you may regret? And if you plan to go thur this why are you asking? It is quite possibly that you are looking for an out. If a lot people say one or the other then you can justify it in your mind. Is that the best thing you can find to do with your summer?
2006-06-29 08:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Kianna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Losing your V card? That is a disturbing way to think about something you have that is so special! Lots of people make many stupid decisions in their lives trying to equal up to other people's standards. Sounds like you need to think about what is REALLY important in your life. You are throwing your body around like a used toy. Will you be proud to tell your children this someday??
2006-06-29 08:16:21 · answer #5 · answered by Consultant 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel u dont relly know the actual truth in this world..but i say tht he shouldnt b experienced so u both could go thru the same feelingz..
2006-06-29 07:58:43 · answer #6 · answered by Babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ready judging by your question. You have sex with meaning not just for fun! I think you should wait until it means much more to you. Just remember people are dying everday from having unsafe sex, becareful who you decide to lay up with if you do.
2006-06-29 08:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i become 15, and that i'm no longer with him anymore yet no. i do no longer be apologetic about it. I easily do not have any regrets in existence for something. The previous is the previous! And at one factor, it become what i wanted. :)
2016-11-15 10:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by nader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should that matter? Find a guy you're in love with and you really want to do it with, and the "expierenced" thing wont matter. Oh, and get married first!! lol
2006-06-29 07:58:40 · answer #9 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get one that never did it before because the other one can have hiv or somethang and the one who haven't did it before will be learning just like you
2006-06-29 08:51:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋