He know's I'm sensative to that and since we moved in, he gets some of his mail (smut mail) at his old address still and everything else comes to our house. So, he's trying to protect my feelings by not seeing it, but he missed the point. I almost feel like saying, "you know, go ahead, get off to your f'n porn, have a nice relationship with your stuck together images on paper, when you could have it live w/ me, indulging in the real thing." He said he would never lie, and he has nothing to hide. Soooo...should I just suck it up or bring it up?
2006-06-29 07:49:47 · 3 answers · asked by dolceang 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
How did you find out? Snooping or just by accident? If it was an honest mistake that you found out - then confront him.
If you were snooping through his stuff - then I think you need to reevaluate the whole relationship - you have some serious trust problems!
2006-06-29 07:55:42 · answer #1 · answered by tequila_girl98 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It it's a problem for you (which it clearly is) then you should bring it up. If it's to the point where you are ready to end the relationship about it, then sucking it up isn't going to make the problem go away. You will always harbor these feelings and it will only escalade to the point where you will blow up. This isn't healthy for you and if he truely respects you then he will respect your wishes about it.....
2006-06-29 14:57:12 · answer #2 · answered by teetee's mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well confront him with the truth and stop the mail from comeing urself through the post office
2006-06-29 14:59:48 · answer #3 · answered by jojo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋