I really want to do it i just dont think it is right.... i mean i odnt want something bad to happen to me but i really want to lose it. im tired of being a virgin....
2006-06-29 07:45:39 · 33 answers · asked by i_luv_sk8rs 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
i don't think it's a matter of age. It's a matter of maturity. the fact that you are just "tired of being a virgin" is not enough, i believe. i hope that you wait until you are in love, and give your virginity to someone who feels the same way towards you.
here's a true-life example. a friend of mine gave up her virginity at 16. then the guy she lost it to told some of his friends (he really didn't care about her). Now being known as "used goods", she basically could get any guy she wanted... just for a roll in the sack.
there is something very attractive about a virgin, so if i were you (yes, i know i'm not), i'd hold onto it a little longer.
2006-06-29 08:04:20 · answer #1 · answered by lime_yyy 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you're "tired of being a virgin" it's because some one has made it sound like there's something wrong with you. There isn't. Ask most women who are clearly older than you, if they regret their first exp. and they'll say "yes", they should've waited. As for the wait until you're married answers..well, I don't think that helps. Hormones are hormones, and if you and your partner truly care for each other and are mature enough to discuss birth control and STD protection, then it's your decision. However, personally, I've worked with a lot of girls and usually being under the age of 17 or 18, is a big mistake. Remember, losing your virginity isn't like losing a library book- you'll remember this exp for the rest of your life. And if you're being pressured by your bf, he's not the right one! And your friends, if they're pressuring you, need to back off. Also, you're making a decision to do an "adult" thing that has "adult" consequences....are you ready for those, if not, then wait. You have the rest of your life to have and enjoy sex. There are also a variety of other ways you and your partner can enjoy yourselves together without having actual intercourse. Again, you need to know your partner. Lastly, you say "I just don't think it's right", well I'm not sure what you mean by that, so until that thought is completely gone, I'd wait.
2006-06-29 07:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by cherilynnc6 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're old enough to have sex when you are old enough to handle the consequences of sex. If you are mature enough to handle the decisions that come with unplanned pregnancy, then you are mature enough to have sex. But, unless you can decide whether to keep a child and provide a decent life for him/her, put the child up for adoption, or abort with the full understanding of the emotional and physical consequences for all parties involved, you are definitely not ready. Protection is never 100% guaranteed, so pregnancy and STD's are always incredibly likely.
2006-06-29 08:26:02 · answer #3 · answered by Manders 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question then your still too young. Being a virgin is a good thing. I wouldn't just give up to anyone. You should wait till the right person comes along then you'll know if your ready or not.
2006-06-29 07:51:28 · answer #4 · answered by *Kristy* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beb,you are a virgin and be proud of that. Once you are not one you can't bring it back. When you find that someone you will know he is the one. Wait until you are married. I don't know your age,so if you are younger than15 it will be a mistake. If you are older than 15 don't do it either. Just because your friends are doing IT, Wait until it is right for you. There is so many diseases out there and diseases doesn't have a face. Be wise and don't do it.
2006-06-29 07:53:56 · answer #5 · answered by cajunlady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't think it's right, than it's not. Don't lose your virginity to someone who doesn't care about you just to "get it over with". First experiences are usually not the greatest in the best of situations, and can be even worse if the two people don't even care about each other.
2006-06-29 07:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're worried about the bad things, you should wait until you are more comfortable knowing what you will do with the bad consiquences. I say wait a while, unless you HAVE TO lose it now, in which case go f**k the first person you see.
2006-06-29 07:48:42 · answer #7 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tired of being a virgin hunn?
you shouldn't say that, but who am i to talk?
in my opinion, there is no specific age to have sex, as long as you feel ready both physically and emotionally, then go ahead, just rmr to use protection if you don`t want to get pregnant.
and make sure your partner is someone you would really want to lose it to, make sure he is someone deserving of that priceless thing you have, because if he isnt, in the long run you'll regret.
just have fun and be safe sweety!
2006-06-29 07:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Miss M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you get married don't be stupid you will regret it if you do it with the wrong person at the wrong time for the wrong reasons i wish i was still a virgin you don't want to end up knocked up with some looses baby or get an std just wait it's so worth the wait
2006-06-29 07:59:12 · answer #9 · answered by gunitgrl627 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do it when you feel like the time is right. Dont give it away just cause you feel "stupid" for being a virgin, wait for the right person to come along, get married, and then go for it.
2006-06-29 07:57:23 · answer #10 · answered by Aimee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋