help me i am scared?

Question

i am 11 weeks pregnant and i am starting to feel a little depressed, i am scared that my husband doesnt love me i am crying all the time and i cant sleep at night, whats wrong with me i am happy about this pregnacy and so is my man

Answer 1

Its totally normal!! There is an increase in hormone levels in your body and that can make you feel depressed (for no reason)...also, pregnancy is a scary, high anxiety time in your life, that can also be a factor in it. I would talk to your doctor at your next appointment and let them know how you are feeling, they may be able to prescribe something, or give some other insight as to how to make you feel better!! Good Luck! =)

Answer 2

Just pregnancy hormones. I was scared too when I found out that I was pregnant that I left my boyfriend. Near the end of my pregnancy I got my head on straight and got back together. I didnt believe that I was pregnant until I saw the first ultrasound and I balled my eyes out. At the end of my pregnancy I never slept maybe on or two hours a day. Once you start to see the changes in your body, you feel the first kick(which does feel like fluttering butterflies) you will become more confident. Stay Strong, take your prenatial vitamins everyday and eat as healthy as you can. Don't stress out too much because your baby can feel EVERYTHING that you feel.

Answer 3

I'd say all the above answers are right. You are feeling the effects of hormone changes, and all the emotion that comes with pregnancy and facing being a new mother.

My wife was an RN and was nervous about our first child. We had 4 sons (don't do that!).

Talk to you Dr. Many women feel depressed during or after pregnancy - sometimes it can get very serious.

Answer 4

How you feel is normal.... I am 6 months pregnant and I feel the same way at times. Everything will be okay your husband is probably more excited then you are. This is something new for he both of you, so feeling scared, overwhelmed and confused is expected. I suggest you purchase "What to expect when expecting"this book is great!! It will tell you about everything you will possibly experience during your pregnancy emotionally and physically.

Answer 5

Being scared is normal and a certain amount of depression can happen because so much is happening to you and your body not to mention your relationship with your spouse. Your hormones are all out of sorts so it would make sense.

You should let your OB know so that they can rule out anything serious. The best book I read was "What to Expect when You are Expecting" if you don't have a copy yet please pick one up it really helped me during my first pregnancy. (Also, get your husband to read it - it will help him to understand what is happening to you).

Good luck and all the best.

Answer 6

its hormones and theres nothing u can do but express how u feel to ur boyfriend, friends etc. they will understand. i freaked out and cried alot in the beginning cause the realization that i was really pregnant and goin to be a mom and not just a sexy, young , professional 24 anymore was scary at first. but talkn is the best thing u can do for urself right now. good luck

Answer 7

Its called hormones. You are going to feel so many different feelings. Have a talk with your husband he should understand and be able to help you get through this. You won't feel this way your whole pregnancy.

Answer 8

First, do not act pregnant., do not let your beauty fall apart., make sure to keep up to date with your nails, toes, hair, etc., be a sexy pregnant woman., lots of women tend to let themselves go because of the pregnancy and you should not, as it is not attracting to your partner... So, that is the first step, look pretty so you can feel pretty... Second., make sure to keep your intimate life, very intimate and alive... when he is watching TV with you, put your head on his stomach and start giving him caresses to you know who... be sexy, buy sexy clothing, just because you are pregnant does not mean that you are not sexy... you make yourself feel and act sexy., you are thinking too much of the fact that you are pregnant., DON'T - - - act the same or even more freaky with your partner...

Answer 9

It's the hormones. The first 3 months are the worst. If it doesn't diminish, seek treatment for pre-partum depression.

Answer 10

It's just your hormones kicking in.He loves you.Men don't like women to cry they feel like it's their fault and they get mad at themselves and in turn get mad at us when we cry.Your going to be fine.It will pass.Try to think good thoughts.I know it's hard but it will get better.I'll say a little prayer for you.Good Luck with your new baby!