do anything he waits a few weeks before he calls again and then its the same routine what do i do?
2006-06-29 07:25:25 · 28 answers · asked by sexy and sweet 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
it depends on what you want...especially if you are an adult.
if you're 18 or under...leave him alone before he gets you pregnant and you become a single mom and don't have a change to plan and/or live your life.
if you're an adult...if you're okay with just being a booty call, continue seeing him and having sex with him...get your fun on while you can and when you can......if that's not what you want and you're not okay with that, tell him you think things are going to fast and you want to press rewind and slow things down. if he truly likes you, he'll understand that and work with you on a speed that's more comfortable. if not, he'll disappear and you're better off. if he says okay, but then pressures you to go fast again and doesn't respect your wishes. cut all ties with him.
2006-06-29 07:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by mirleta_liz 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that he just wants to have intercourse, because no matter what if a guy really likes you no matter how busy he is he will find time in his day to call you. If you like him, you might want to break yourself away b/c you risk getting hurt by this guy. You deserve better, someone who wants to see or at least talk to you everyday
or.........
if you are just wanting this open relationship no strings attached then just leave it where it is.. just be safe you dont know who else he is calling during those weeks of silence or how many other people he is sleeping with!!
u need to decide now before your feelings esculate!
2006-06-29 07:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that he's seven years older than you has nothing to do with the fact that you're a booty call. If you're genuinely interested in this man, call him and invite him out on a daytime-date, like lunch (which is less likely to end end in sex) so that you can actually get to know him. Chances are that once you do get to know him, you'll see that all he has to offer a woman is sex.
2006-06-29 09:09:55 · answer #3 · answered by nlnolde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody on here keeps saying he's using you, and leave him alone. How do you feel about it? If you're looking for a relationship, then yeah, bounce. Tell him to STEP OFF!
But if you're not looking for too much, and all you want is sex, then do ya thing. Keep him as a booty call, because then he's not using you. How can he use you for something you're already giving up?
2006-06-29 07:46:01 · answer #4 · answered by Agent Double EL 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's using you. I had a boyfriend once that I saw about 2 times a month and it was just for sex. He obviosly has something else or someone else going on. If you are looking for a relationship with him,, forget it, it won't happen, believe me
2006-06-29 07:29:54 · answer #5 · answered by reallyfedup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if you are under 16 then he is a pedophile. He is using you, break it off with him because you are worth so much more than that. Also I think you should look within yourself at why you are willing to have sex with men so easily.
2006-06-29 08:38:45 · answer #6 · answered by corleonelover 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are of consensual age - he's probably married or has someone in his life if he has not given you a way to reach him
If you are a minor, I would report him to the authorities right away.
Either way - he doesn't sound like a nice person
2006-06-29 07:31:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you letting him do this to you? If this has happened more than once, you should feel stupid. Not to offend you, but he is seeing you as a booty call. You need to dump his ***. For real girl. Good luck. There are plenty more men out there who will not do that to you. He's a loser.
2006-06-29 07:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by sshhmmee2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump the clod he is just using you GOD I hope you are 18 or older if not he could be a pedophile and you are to immature to let some one like that use you don't be nobodies play thing RUN will pray for you
2006-06-29 07:34:17 · answer #9 · answered by Charles W 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you see him, or talk to him, ask him where he thinks this relationship is going, or if it's just about the one thing. Then you need to decide if you really want to continue seeing him.
2006-06-29 07:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋