Till date i do not have a girlfriend, b/c i find it difficult to decide how to approach & start conversation with a girl to whom i am attracted to.
Can you please help me in getting a pretty girlfriend...
2006-06-29 07:25:03 · 15 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Well first off, being yourself obviously doesn't work. Because if it does then guys can get numbers from any girl.
Well first you need to set yourself apart from every other guy.
So walking over and say something sort of rude to get her attention but cute enough to make her laugh.
(Being rude is a bad thing by the way, but your only doing this to get her attention and breaking her boredom from every other guy that asked her)
THEN may you compliment her (once) and ask questions to get to know her better.
After a few minutes of chat say you have to leave but would love to talk to her again, because a clingy guy can't go no where.
STEPS:
1. Rude (just to grab her attention)
2. Say something cute to undermine the rudeness
3. Say something interesting that intrigues her.
4. Talk about yourself a little bit (Dont brag about your job, instead
joke about your career)
5. Ask for her number, and leave.
EX.
Dont sit there for 30 minutes staring at her then walk up, only stalkers do this. Do it ASAP when you first see her.
1. Say "Get out of my seat" - Rude
2. Say "Oh Im sorry, I thought you were someone else" with a smile - Cute
3. Ask "But wait, whats your name?"
Say "Well Ive been working here for two years and the secret in getting your cofee faster than the people that order before is to put atleast two dollars in the tip jar after you get your change back"
4. Say "Im not the manager of my company, but when new comers come in I tell them to go get me cofee and they suddenly think Im the CEO or something.
5. Your funny, kinda cute (compliment), well I gotta go (somewhere) but is there way we can see eachother again?
Being an ordinary gentlemen is good, but being an extraodinary gentlemen is even better.
2006-06-29 13:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
My husband told me about an aproach that worked really well for him. Just before you leave, whether you're at a bar, in a class with her or wherever, walk up to her and say "I'd really like to get together with you some time, but I've got somewhere to be right now so here's my number" and place a piece of paper with your name and number (or a business card if you have one) in front of her. That takes the pressure off of you to be standing there waiting for an answer, it takes the pressure off of her to give an answer right away and it might just heighten her curiostiy in you as you'll at least SEEM to be showing confidence. You don't have the embarassment of her telling you no and if you get a phone call from her, you can go from there. If she never calls, no loss.
2006-06-29 13:20:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for my section i imagine the boy might want to ask out the lady yet that's because i'm from Chicago and that is what we regularly do the following yet then some relationships are ruined because the guy is to shy or they female is to shy in my college we've boys and women folk and the girls folk regularly refer to the boys and then the girls folk regularly communicate between themselves same with the boys. i'm no longer shure if this allows it will be a touch uncertain yet that's my opinion.
2016-11-15 10:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confidence is the key! I love it when a guy is so self- sure that he wouldn't think twice about approaching me. It's how I have met some fantastic people.
2006-06-29 09:58:05 · answer #4 · answered by nobody 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best advise to to be yourself. go with an open mind. Speak the truth and be nice.Youhave nothing to loose.
2006-06-29 07:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by viddy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well 1st walk up to her n talk den start being friend with her & start craking jokes n stuff but make sure she is interested & then finally tell her whtz in ur mind ;)
2006-06-29 07:43:26 · answer #6 · answered by Liz - 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A rose is the way to a girls heart.
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2006-06-29 09:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk up to one and give them a compliment. And at least act sencere about what you are complimenting them on.
2006-06-29 07:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by gta185180 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slowly..then when she's not paying attention..you THROW A NET OVER HER.. i hunted them once in the rain forest, sneakie little buggers
2006-06-29 07:30:03 · answer #9 · answered by . 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u could start by saying hi and giving her some comploments.
2006-06-29 07:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by the girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋