My baby died about 9 months ago when he was born and i just found out im 6 weeks pregnant. Im really scared what if it happens again
2006-06-29 07:18:43 · 66 answers · asked by Daniel P 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
He was born at 38 weeks the doctor made a mistake and sent me home and i went back later that night because i just felt weird. Thats when they told me that the babies heart wasnt beating i almost died. They said that these things just happen. But they ignored the signs that i was swelling and i had protein in my urine and they had a hard time finding the heart beat earlier that day. My lawyer is now working on my case. She said we have a 99% chance of winning.
2006-06-29 07:34:15 · update #1
Dont worry too much....Pray that it NEVER happens again! This is your second chance at having a special gift (a baby)...embrace it and enjoy it!! Good Luck, I pray for the best for you!! =)
2006-06-29 07:22:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women have this I don't know what it is called, but I saw on Birth Day ( the show on discovery health) and the women had to deliver at a certain point b/c her first baby was still born. Just talk to your doctor and see if he/she has heard any of this. You should be monitored and treated as high risk. When did you deliver you baby? Were you late or early? This can all play a part.
I hope this helps and if your doctor doesn't treat this as a problem go to a doctor until you find one that does. For a baby to be still born there was probably something wrong with the placenta or something.
2006-06-29 07:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by justme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um... God didn't take your baby because he loved it too much. Something happened and it just wasn't time for you to have a baby yet. Take care of yourself, keep in touch with the doctor. And I never tell this to people, but go ahead and allow yourself to be paranoid. If anything at all seems abnormal, go get it checked out. I'm sure everything will go great and you'll have a beautiful, smiling face looking up into your eyes in no time, but the more the doctors are checking up on you, the higher the chances of them catching any problems before they become too dangerous to you or the baby. I'm incredibly sorry for your previous loss, but hold your head up high and take care of yourself. Good luck!
2006-06-29 07:27:34 · answer #3 · answered by lizwatson109 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading that gave me chills. The only advice I have for you is to just embrace it. Love yourself and that baby you are carrying. I am so very sorry to hear about your other child. Know that God did not bring you this far to just drop kick you now. Everything in life has a purpose and a reason for happening. They will probably keep you as high risk and keep really tight reigns on you this time around so take really good care of yourself sweetheart. You are the most important person in your world, and you have been given a very special gift. Congratulations and best wishes.
2006-07-11 06:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Kimmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to hear that. i wish you the best of luck with your case because that **** aint right! I also experienced a loss and I'm almost 3mnths pregnant now. I'm also scared but all I can really say is god isnt going to give any of us anymore than we can handle. I think your baby will be fine. I hope you have a healthy baby. I hope you dont go back to the same hospital to have this child though. Just dont stress and leave it up to god. Good luck boo!
2006-07-13 04:27:34 · answer #5 · answered by dimergurl247 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything happens for a reason. It may be hard to believe epically in a situation like that. You have every reason and right to be scared. Make sure you keep up on your doctor visits and take good care of yourself. I know the feeling. I had many, many mis-carriages before I was able to have my first. The doctors all told me that there was something wrong with the baby that's why my body wouldn't keep it. Keep your head up and remember optimism is the door to opportunity.
2006-06-29 07:27:15 · answer #6 · answered by Miss.Renee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm really sorry about your baby. I know it won't bring him back, but I hope you get every cent of that jerks money. He shouldn't be allowed to practice ever again. Look on this new baby as a gift from God. He can't replace your other baby, but he can help you cope.
If you even think something's not right with your health, make a huge fuss until someone listens to you. They would never have treated a man that way!!!
2006-07-12 13:49:40 · answer #7 · answered by hollyltstarfleet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through...I lost a set of twins at 20 and got pregnant right after...Just be calm and Im sure that everything will be fine...you didnt mention what caused the death of your baby...Speak to your doctor about the chances of that type of thing happening again etc..and maybe that will calm your nerves as well..
.Im truly sorry for the loss of your baby...its something that never goes away completely..but after awhile we do start to realize that everything has a purpose...as much as it hurts
2006-06-29 07:24:04 · answer #8 · answered by Heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im so sorry to hear of your loss! And CONGRATULATIONS! Dont ever put energy into "what if's"! Why worry about something that hasn't happened. You don't want to give your baby that energy! I'm a pagan lady and in my beliefs we feel that there is the possibility that this second baby is the same spirit as your first baby.........trying for a re-entry into this world! Give him/her your love and strength and don't worry about what could happen. Be healthy, stay strong in spirit and you and your baby will be fine! TRUST YOUR GUT!!!! You are being blessed again! Go with it! Bask in it! Enjoy your belly as it grows! I have two little ones.....It is the bestest! God/dess bless you and your baby!
2006-07-12 18:25:29 · answer #9 · answered by Ambervisions 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats&Condolenses Try to look at it this way
I have 2 Kids age 2 and 3. Age:22 Not a easy life. Dont worry bout it i say same baby HE just wasnt ready the 1st time around. Hes gonna make it this time!!
Make sure you have different doctors! Not any doc buddies of the JERK dr.!!
2006-07-12 20:17:37 · answer #10 · answered by cellosamy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this happen to me too. Don't stress youself out about it. You need to grieve your lost child but on the other hand you should really be joyed about the one you now carry. Really this isn't good for the baby you have now. Apparently someone from above knows how much you should have a baby. Good Luck. Feel free to IM me at my yahoo that matches this sign in if you need to talk.
2006-06-29 07:21:38 · answer #11 · answered by lrybio2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋