my boyfreind and me where going out for about 1 year( we stoped talking back in november then one month later we started again) now in june we argued and we havent talked since then!! everyone knows we love eachother..we cant live without eachother. he always passes by my house and tries to see me but he just doesnt talk to me...whats wrong can anyone help me??
2006-06-29 07:16:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
OH MY GOD !!
Deja Vu, You remind me of me and my ex girlfriend.
We were together for 3 plus years. We used to fight so regularly that in the beginning our friends used to be shocked by the anger and in the intensity. But we used to end up kissing and making up. But as we moved on, our fights became a forthnightly event, and our friends just ignored it like it was a 'normal thing'
But I used to do all the things, you mentioned in your Q. Go in front of her house, we used to give each other missed calls and sometimes prank calls, we used to have our friends call eachother and find out how the other person was doing, and so on a so forth.
But fights in a relationship are NEVER healthy and mind you, it will get old and you will sometimes cross that line of sensitivity, therefore inadvertantly hurting the other persons more than you thought you would.
He (like my gf) might be of the false impression that fights are 'normal and important' to keep the love in a relationship.
Try and convince him that this is not normal, NEVER.
You should set some ground rules and learn not to overstep eachother.
I understood we fought as often as we did, because we lacked trust and respect for the other.
Take one day at a time. You will never go wrong.
2006-06-29 08:06:35 · answer #1 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I'm sure that you heard that every relationship goes through test to see how strong the love really is. Well this could be a test. If he drives by your house just to see you and doesn't even speak to you. Maybe he's trying to tell you something and either he doesn't know how or he doesn't know how you will respond when he tells you. And then maybe he just can't go a day without seeing you! But you should just talk to him go out on a date or something and ask him is there anything that he needs to tell you.
2006-06-29 07:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by astar010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like your first relationship. It is not love, it is lust. This sounds harsh, but with time and exoerience you will find that the first year of a relationship is lust. This is why it is not recomended that you move in or marry someone that you have known for more than a year. Everyone can put their best foot foward for a year. It is after this time that you get to know who they truley are.
2006-06-29 07:22:12 · answer #3 · answered by Gabriel m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may love eachother but just may not be a good match for the long haul that marriage is...remember an ex is an ex for a reason...and our memory always blocks out the bad stuff especially in love
2006-06-29 07:21:26 · answer #4 · answered by tweetz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
definately sounds like young love. I hated my first love for 5 out of 6 years that we dated but wasnt smart enough to leave. Do yourself a favor and move on while it's still early it will hurt less. If he is persistant and won't leave you alone just sleep with his best freind.
2006-06-29 07:25:23 · answer #5 · answered by ME 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-31 22:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Instead of you waiting for him to come to you, you should go after him. Talk with him, and tell him how you feel. Chances are he will say the same. Its harder for guys to come out with their feelings so when he drives by your house you know he is thinking about you.
2006-06-29 07:22:54 · answer #7 · answered by Crazychick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems that it is immature love or these are really crazy arguments. So your choice to accept immaturity and craziness, or you can move on and grow up.
2006-06-29 07:23:24 · answer #8 · answered by Mariah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems he is trying to get your attention. how about seeing him? i know its hard. but maybe it will come throu.
2006-06-29 07:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by melissa b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋