Could the answer be because they do not know what they enjoy because past mates didn't want to put forth the effort?
2006-06-29 07:10:39 · 15 answers · asked by Subterfuge 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Okay, so call me the modern man.
I really think it is important for the woman to enjoy the sexual experience we are about to share together.
Those who answer "you shouldn't ask" have either never reached orgasm with a partner or are the lazy men who do not want to put forth the effort and have never helped a woman reach orgasm.
Keep not putting forth the effort and there will be more women for us who will once your lady leaves you.
2006-06-29 07:16:36 · update #1
We are taught at a young age that sexuality is a naughty dirty thing. And, we feel sheepish about discussing it seriously sometimes. Specially nice girls when they are young.
2006-06-29 07:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I suppose it's the same reason some men, or any other category of people, feel shamed. More than likely it is background and upbringing. This includes everything from religion to sex abuse to tradition.
Some women are that way, but believe me there are plenty who are not.
2006-06-29 07:19:54 · answer #2 · answered by Thinkithtrough 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a question that only a husband should be asking to a wife. A counselor may ask such questions during MARITAL therapy, as well.
People do not like to share their intimate information with just anyone, capice?
Mr. M on shame.
2006-06-29 07:15:08 · answer #3 · answered by Humberto M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who made you the expert..? You think you be some kinda big man or somethin.. My husband, bless his soul treated me right for many years and we both was faithful til the end and we didn't run around like a bunch of monkeys in heat.. I don't need to run around broadcasting to the whole town what is happing in my marriage bed.. You run around getting diseases and aborting your mistakes before a holy God and think you gonna get away with it.. Yo better think again.. You talk about past mates, I got no past mates and I was faithful to my husband for over 40 years of happy marriage..
2006-06-29 07:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of it is upbringing, society, and religion. Some of it is just lack of communication. Women (and men) should feel comfortable enough with their partners to tell them what they like without being asked.
2006-06-29 07:15:17 · answer #5 · answered by eyebtired 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they do not have a PUBLIC sex life like the dogs. It is a thing in private between them and their husband, and they have not put out to a bunch of past mates like chimpanzees..
2006-06-29 07:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by † PRAY † 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Culture and society. But look at the show Sex and the City, women are becoming more open and exploring their own needs.
2006-06-29 07:15:59 · answer #7 · answered by one_derful_day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think fo rmyself it's being ashamed it's more like embarrassed. I can talk freely about just about anything except when it comes to my fantasies or experiences.
2006-06-29 07:15:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's very deeply internal. To be asked is to try to put words to someting that is experienced sensually.
2006-06-29 07:18:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ancespiration 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you shouldn't be asking that in the first place.
2006-06-29 07:12:51 · answer #10 · answered by aparigraba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋