I wish to start a Gay straight alignence and my father (who is head of the PTA) says I shouldn't start one at my middle school. I am closeted to him and since I'm not aloud to leave my neiborhood by myself I thought this would be a good way to meet othe LGBTQ kids at my school. Should I go against him?
2006-06-29 07:03:46 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Gsa= Gay straight alignce
2006-06-29 07:06:46 · update #1
Why not Rock and roll 5?
2006-06-29 07:08:08 · update #2
i'm 15. Dude!!!
2006-06-29 07:11:25 · update #3
NO!!!
2006-06-29 07:06:36 · answer #1 · answered by Vagabond5879 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Although I'm all for gay pride, I say that starting a gsa in you middle school is a really bad idea. You are so young and I think you need a lot more time to understand yourself and the pressures that being gay bring to your life. Especially since you aren't out to your father and he isn't generally excited by the idea, it seems to me that starting a GSA is not the right thing for you. Give your self some time and I'm sure you will find other LGBTQ students... but also realize that most people aren't ready to be out at your age (just like you aren't fully out) and a club won't change things.
2006-07-08 19:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by lilacpoohlover 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should. If you feel the need for someplace to go, talk and be with other that accept you , then go for it. You should first however do your homework. make sure it would be allowed by the local school board. Also look for your local PFLAG. They can help you as well. Another place to turn for help is your local High School and their GSA if they have one. Chances are if the High School doesn't have one, you won't get yours.
Last, by setting up your school's GSA your parents will more than likely suspect you are a lesbian. Be prepared for this as well.
To those of you who feel anyone is too young to know if they are gay or straight, you are wrong. Even if they are only questioning, they should be able to turn somewhere to get some answers.
2006-06-29 07:21:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are not out to your parents, starting a GSA is not a very... inconspicouos move, believe me, I know - I'm too big of a pansy to put my name behind one directly and have been trying in vain for a year to find someone who's willing to do it.
If you feel it is really something you need to do, then go for it! Your father does, however, have the double power of controlling your home life and the PTA.
Also, in high school, you will probably be more successful with your group because more students would likely join.
In the end, it's just whether or not you think the benefits would outweigh the negative things.
Have a pleasant day, and contact me anytime if you have any questions.
2006-06-29 07:20:50 · answer #4 · answered by oldwhatshername 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt cause you're a Middle school student and for you to be able to say you are gay or lesbian is based on 14 yrs of life at max unless you failed a few times and really you wont have the same thoughts on relation ships at the age of 14 vr the age of 18 or older and i know this just cause im 21 and i used to have a mindset like you wanting to do everything my way but it isnt always beast and your dads prolly looking out for your intrests and his intrests as a parent...what you do reflects him!
2006-06-29 07:10:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should start a gay/straight alliance at your school. It can help make all different kinds of people to feel safe at school and help to get rid of sterotypes. Plus it would be fun to hang out with people that are open-minded and want to make a difference in the way gay/lesbian/bisexual people are treated (for the better.) About your father, he may just be scared you will get hurt but fear shouldn't stop you. Do understand some people may not understand but you don't need them to or you can try to educate them.
Go to PFLAG, a local GLBTQ youth group, or an Equal Human Rights group for help in starting one. Luck. Tell us how it turned out.
2006-06-29 09:28:34 · answer #6 · answered by MindStorm 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't think it's a good idea because if you can't come out to your parents first then being part of the GSA has really no point because you won't be honest to yourself until you come out. So I think maybe you should start GSA when your out and comfortable with yourself.
2006-06-29 09:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its an awsome idea but if you dont want to go against your father try asking around if you find one gay person more than likely you will be able to meet most of the others i know over half of the g/l/b people in my school just because i met my friend whos bi but its an awsome idea and i really think you should go for it it may even help some people come out
2006-07-08 13:56:30 · answer #8 · answered by black_rose8666 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you should. But it is a lot of work. My bf started one at his high school and it took more work than he was expecting. And if I were you, I wouldn't expect too many people to come. Most middle school aged people don't have a firm grasp of their sexuality (or even their personality). But Good luck!
2006-06-29 07:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by bcabe111 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're 15 and still in middle school, you'll probably start high school next year. Wait until then. You'll be a little smarter, have more freedom, and be bettter able to find other queers in your area. Good luck!!
2006-06-29 09:34:22 · answer #10 · answered by dani_kin 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
GO FOR IT I LIKE THE IDEA U KNOW WHAT I'LL DO IT SO U JUST HELPED ME BIG TIME SINCE IM BI
2006-06-30 07:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋