I am married, but in love with a married man...?

Question

We use to work together, but haven't since February. I didn't realize I had feelings for this person until I went on a trip with my family and thought about him a lot and one of the first calls I made was to him and then we met for lunch and I knew that something was going on. He confided he's had feelings for me for quite some time and has tried telling me, but I wasn't getting it. I think we need to make sure this isn't just a stupid mistake and we have agreed to keep everything strictly platonic, but to spend some time together talking about everything. We find comfort talking to one another and know about each others personal issues at home and at work. Any thoughts out there...?

Answer 1

Exactly I am in the same situation, I feel as long as we restrict our relation to platonic, then there is no problem...Its like having some one more than a friend, Its a special relation...THERE IS NO WRONG IN IT... Go ahead....

Answer 2

If there's feelings between both of you then there's no way you can keep a platonic relationship for long. You have to think now if you're ready to take that step and face the consequences if your spouse finds out. Also think about how you really feel about this person are you willing to be with him and leave your husband? There's a lot that goes into an affair it can get very complicated. Maybe you need to put more time into your marriage, maybe this is a sign that things aren't right.

Answer 3

I've always been told that if you leave someone for one you like then the one that you like will leave you for the one they love.

I don't think you are considering the fact that ya'll are both married, and assuming the two of you have problems that you need to get help on. Something is bothering you to find someone else besides your husband very desirable. I could be wrong but how would you feel to be the other woman.

Answer 4

you got yourself a boyfriend, you slut. Hope you do not have kids.