what would u do if ur boyfriend is very violent?

Answer 1

get out sweety. he's not going change no matter how much you try and 'love" him.

please leave him and call the authorities. he deserves to be in jail if he's touched one hair on that cute head of yours.

Answer 2

LOL. I never was able to stand that type. I would think about how and why I got into the relationship and then I would break up with him, regardless of what he might do to me, and I would go on with my life having learned from the experience.

He will beg and maybe hurt you and probably stalk you and probably this will go on for a very long time and will make your life hard because he CAN do this to you but you just realize that you have A LOT more life to live and that you will get past this.

Do not stay with him. Maybe suggest to him that he get counseling for his anger while he is not mad, maybe while you're talking normally to each other.

It is his nature so I wouldn't try to change it. Just separate yourself from it or you will be a battered wife and that is harder to get away from.

Answer 3

First of all, you need to brake off all ties with him and make sure that there is no contact. You need to talk to a friend or a parent you can trust and let them know whats going on. If he's really that bad you may think about a restraining order. Protect yourself and always look over your shoulder. Remember not everyone takes a brake up very well and it may make them more angry. Be Careful and safe.

Answer 4

I'd ask myself what I was doing with this person in the first place.I'd wonder if I might have a problem that I need to fix b4 being in this relationship,and if I fixed the problem would I still want to be with him.What is driving you towards a violent man?

Answer 5

depends on the level of his tiny man complex. sometimes just leaving him will do, and maybe a restraining order is needed, other times that isn't enough and relocating with new identity might be needed. I wouldn't go with a hired hitman, that most often will not work out. also, stay away from shooting yourself in the bum or foot and blaming him, cause he'll get out eventually and might get madder ?

Answer 6

Sounds like your are very afraid of him. If so, tell him its over till he gets his anger under control. Since I doubt he will take kindly to that ultimatium. Seek information from domestic abuse centers and protect yourself. Be strong about it, since you could be a target of his rage sometime. Document everything he does after that (preferrally recorded) and get a order of protection. Make this known to all your family and friends, and police if things get just a bit threatening, Good luck

Answer 7

Get the Hell outta dodge. Even though he is not violent to you at the moment, it is a matter of time before you will become his next victim. Take it from me!

Answer 8

Sit him down and let him know that his violent outburst scare you.
This is not healthy for either of you.
Let him know that you want to help him fix this.
If he is not willing to recognize that he has a problem then let him know that you need to leave him for the sake of your own safety.

Answer 9

Whoa! You might like or even love him. But if he's violent, then you gotta leave him girl. Straight away, no thinking twice about it.

Answer 10

Get out. If he is violent then he will eventuall turn it on you. No one deserves that in a relationship. Get out now, and get a restraining order if you feel threatened.

Answer 11

This happened to me before.Used to date this guy for 4 and a half years, thought I loved him. Leave him,you dont deserve to be treated this way. You'll get over him,I promise you.